OK, well its me again, sitting in front of my computer, accompanied by my books n TV. Instead of preparing for civil litigation, I m staring at this web thinking of what to write. I believe, I used to write alot about my thought and everything but seems that these days, I have no idea on wht I should write ( valuable article) on my blog. Perhaps it is because of amounts of alcohols that I have or perhaps it is not related to the alcohols at all , just that my brain has given up of me.....sigh.......

Well, referring to provious article, I think my prob has been settled but its just that I dont knw whetehr i will be able to trust a person 100% as I used to be.........( to be continued...) :)

"BESTFRIEND"??!!

Lots of people tell me that I am their best friend bla bla bla, but how can you be so sure that a person is your best friend or not? as in order to be best friends, I think we must know each other well enough to claim that words n I will not classify a person as my best friend just because I have just known her/him for about a year, it is a lifelong process to reach that stage.

A best friend is someone who you can trust in telling everything without fear of being betrayed and who is always be and support you in a matter that you would like to achieve; not someone who back stabbing and betrayed you from behind. If the thing that i fear the most these days is really gonna happened between me n my 'best friend', I do not think that I will be able to talk to her as i used to, in fact I will just act that she never existed in my life at all, I rather to have normal friend rather than this type of 'best friend' who back stabbing me from behind!!! n Dont ever think that you will be able to see me again!!!

A best friend is not someone who secretly hide everything from you and even when you approach her, she will pretend not to be interested in the thing but in fact she is i.e. from the way she always talks about it , body language, etc. I dont like it when she does taht, i prefer her to be honest to me and she is not the friend that I used to know before.

PS: whoever read this, must have known who I referred to and you must be conscious about what I m referring to and I really meant on wht I said above!!!

cinta harus memiliki

sorry guys for those who do not understand indo or malay language. I got this article from http://www.kafegaul.com and after i read it, i think this article is very encouraging for me and perhaps for others as well so enjoy.....

'Ada seorang teman, berkata dengan nada agak keras, “Cinta itu harus memiliki. hanya orang bodoh, tidak percaya diri ,yang mengatakan cinta tidak harus memiliki,”. Saya terkejut, memandang dia lekat. Namun dimatanya saya melihat keteguhan, Sebuah ucapan yang berlatar pada pengalaman pribadinya.

Kemudian teman saya itu menambahkan,” Ada seorang lelaki yang menunggu perempuannya datang dan masuk kelas. Begitu saja dia sudah puas. Dan itu terus berlangsung, pria itu tidak cukup percaya diri untuk melakukan sesuatu,”. Saya hampir meneteskan airmata. Ada banyak roman picisan macam begitu.

Dia berkata begitu bukan karena emosi. Tidak ada niatan pula mencecar pihak yang beranggapan ‘cinta tak harus memiliki’. Dia menginspirasi saya dan banyak orang untuk memiliki cintanya. “Lakukan sesuatu untuk cinta lo. Dan kalaupun dia menolak lo, pastikan dia akan menyesal karena kehilangan cinta sebesar milik lo,” ucapnya dengan mantap. Lelaki itu sudah bertumbuh, kini dia memiliki kepercayaan diri.

Pada hakikatnya cinta datang dalam kondisi yang tidak direncanakan. Namun bersyukurlah apabila kita masih punya rasa cinta. Kata teman saya itu, dia menyesal tidak berjuang untuk cintanya. Semuanya pun menguap bak embun pagi disiang hari. Lewat bahasa, tatapan matanya yang penuh arti, dia hendak berbagi inspirasi itu.

“Bilang, jangan disimpan sendiri. Dia tidak akan tahu. Atau sebenarnya dia menunggu kamu bilang begitu,” katanya, tergetar. Teman saya itu pun tersenyum, menerawang, “Ya, dia menunggu. Dan ketika kami menyadarinya, semua tidak berada dalam waktu yang tepat,” .

Dia tidak ingin menyesal, walau rasa itu berkecamuk dalam dirinya. Sekali lagi dia berkata pada saya,”Kalau kamu mencintai seseorang, katakan,”. Lakukan sesuatu, jangan hanya berdiam diri melihat orang yang kamu cintai bertumbuh tanpa kehadiranmu. Jika pun tidak berjodoh, at least kamu sudah memperjuangkan cinta itu.

Semoga teman saya, dan tulisan ini menginspirasi Anda. Sebab cinta mungkin berbahasa dengan caranya, namun biarkan mulut Anda menyenandungkan kata cinta yang manis ditelinganya. Hingga genaplah bahasa cinta dan bahasa manusia itu.'

RESOURCES :http://kafegaul.com/girls/article.php?id=29169&cat=38

I guess it is time to update my blog again after long time, kekekekkeke. I am in Bristol, working on my dissertation in which I have handed in to my supervisor but she has nt replied me yet. I need to hand it in tomorrow as i will not be in Bristol from 23Aug-6 Sept 07,I am going to Swiss (Basel,Bern, Lucerne,Laussanne, Geneva, and Zurich) from 23-31 aug, then i will go to Cambridge, Oxford, Birmingham, Cardiff, Exeter, Bournemouth and Brighton from 31-6 sept. Will be back to Bristol to celebrate my bday :P.

About my dissertation, I hope that it is going to be alrite, as comments made by my supervisor wasnt taht good, ohhh GODDDDD..... help me.
Someone has moved into room C but she is onlygoing to stay for a week in tat room. I hope that I will have nice n friendly flatmates for ths year and so do my coursemates. I m so scared...... and nervous, have not done any revision for LPC which I m supposed to do revision as wht I have been told. instead I m going for holidays..............sei sei sei sei. en i also hope that i can cope with LPC...

PICTURES

FINALLY MY BIG FAT COUSIN WHOM THEY CALLED AS 'CHIO' KEKKEKEKEK
ME N SILLY BRO!! DONT LOOK AT HIS THUMB!!!
HANDS UP!! U HAVE RIGHT TO REMAIN SILENT......( THS R CRIMINALS WHO R TOO HAPPY TO BE CAUGHT BY ALICE ANGKO) KEKEKKEEKE

ACTION PLSSSS!!!
ME N NELLY AT STARBUCKS, SUN PLAZA
KATH, ANITA, ALICE, SRI, VINCE AND JULIAWATI
me with TERATE lao shi , IRENE AND PAULINA IN CEMARA - REUNI
WELL ACCORDING TO NELLY, CA BO PENG PIC
LUCKY TO BE ABLE TO MEET SOME OF THEM!!
SECOND ROUND IN CEMARA
POSE POSE
BVC YEAR END DINNER ORGANIZED BY JAMIE EN WENG TCHUNG, THEY ARE GOOD ORGANIZERS AND IT WAS A GREAT DINNER!! :)
I LOVE THIS PIC!!! SHOULD PUT IT AS MY PROFILE PIC IN FACEBOOK!! HAHAHAHA
ME WITH SUSAN, MY MATE WHO I HAVE KNWN SINCE WE WERE IN OUR MOM'S TUMMY, SHE IS GOING TO HAVE A BABY SOON!!
ME WITH SOME OF MY MATES, VINCE,SILVIA, EVA AT FOUNTAIN, SUN 1 DAY B4 I CAME BACK TO BRISTOL

ME WITH MY COUSIN
A FEW PICS TAKEN DURING MY HOLS IN INDO N ACTIVITIES FOR THE PAST FEW MONTHS :)

BB' s Emily over racist remark

I read an article about Emily Parr (Big Brother) over her racist remarks on another contestant, Charley. As a result of the racist word ( she called Charley as a n****r) Emily has been evicted. I agree with the eviction as it can be used as a lesson to teach these people not to use racist remarks and respect others. She should have think before she used the word.
There is a part from the article which she claimed herself as an intelligent person ' Emily says she was reading from the age of two and gives herself 10 out of 10 for intelligence' (http://www.metro.co.uk/bigbrother/article.html?in_article_id=51128&in_page_id=22 9 jun 2007). If she is intelligent, she will not use that remark.
She is from Bristol, i m wondering which university or college she is in.

Jokes

1. An Arab was interviewed at the US Embassy for a U.S.A. Visa.

Consul : What is your name?
Arab: Abdul Aziz

Consul: Sex?
Arab : Six to ten times a week

Consul: I mean, male or female?
Arab : both male and female and sometimes even camels

Consul: Holy cow!
Arab : Yes, cows and dogs too!!!!

Consul: Man,........isn't it hostile?
Arab :Horse style, dog style, any style

Consul: Oh..........dear!
Arab : Deer? No deer, they run too fast!

2. All Lawyers are Assholes
All Lawyers are Assholes A guy in a bar stands up and says, "All lawyers are assholes."

Another guy stands up and says "Hey...I resent that..."

The first guy says, "Why? Are you a lawyer?"

The second guy says, "No. I'm an asshole."
http://www.coolfunnyjokes.com/Funny-Jokes/Bar-Jokes/All-Lawyers-are-Assholes.html

3. Just Plain Dumb
A blonde and a redhead were sitting together having drinks, when the blonde noticed a man walking towards them with an arm full of long stem red roses. The blonde says to the redhead, "isn't that your husband coming carrying all those roses?"

The redhead says, yes it is.

The blonde responds by saying, "Oh you are so lucky".

The redhead says, "No I'm not. All that means is that I have to spend the whole week-end flat on my back, with my legs in the air and spread apart."

The blonde says, "Oh my, don't you have a vase to put them in"?
http://www.coolfunnyjokes.com/Funny-Jokes/Blonde-Jokes/just-plain-dumb.html

4. Girls night out
Two women friends had gone out for a Girls Night Out, and had been decidedly over-enthusiastic on the cocktails. Incredibly drunk and walking home they suddenly realized they both needed to pee. They were very near a graveyard and one of them suggested they do their business behind a headstone or something. The first woman had nothing to wipe with so she took off her panties, used them and threw them away. Her friend however was wearing an expensive underwear set and didn't want to ruin hers, but was lucky enough to salvage a large ribbon from a wreath that was on a grave and proceeded to wipe herself with it. After finishing, they made their way home.

The next day the first woman's husband phones the other husband and said, "These damn girls nights out have got to stop. My wife came home last night without her panties." "That's nothing," said the other. "Mine came back with a sympathy card stuck between the cheeks of her butt that said, 'From all of us at the Fire Station, Well never forget you!'

5.Poor guy
A man escapes from prison where he has been for 15 years. He breaks into a house to look for money and guns and finds a young couple in bed.

He orders the guy out of bed and ties him to a chair, while tying the girl to the bed he gets on top of her, kisses her neck, then gets up and goes into the bathroom. While he's in there, the husband tells his wife:

"Listen, this guy's an escaped convict, look at his clothes! He probably spent lots of time in jail and hasn't seen a woman in years. I saw how he kissed your neck." If he wants sex, don't resist, don't complain, do whatever he tells you. Satisfy him no matter how much he nauseates you. This guy is probably very dangerous. If he gets angry, he'll kill us. Be strong, honey. I love you."

To which his wife responds: "He wasn't kissing my neck. He wwas whispering in my ear. He told me he was gay, thought you were cute, and asked me if we had any vaseline. I told him it was in the bathroom. Be strong honey. I love you too!!"

6.Smartest Man in the World A doctor, a lawyer, a little boy and a priest were out for a Sunday afternoon flight on a small private plane. Suddenly, the plane developed engine trouble.

In spite of the best efforts of the pilot, the plane started to go down. Finally, the pilot grabbed a parachute, yelled to the passengers that they had better jump, and bailed out.

Unfortunately, there were only three parachutes remaining.

The doctor grabbed one and said "I'm a doctor, I save lives, so I must live," and jumped out.

The lawyer then said, "I'm a lawyer and lawyers are the smartest people in the world. I deserve to live."

He also grabbed a parachute and jumped.

The priest looked at the little boy and said, "My son, I've lived a long and full life. You are young and have your whole life ahead of you. Take the last parachute and live in peace."

The little boy handed the parachute back to the priest and said, "Not to worry, Father. The 'smartest man in the world' just took off with my back pack."

7.Labour Pains A married couple went to he hospital to have their baby delivered. Upon their arrival, the doctor said he had invented a new machine that would transfer a portion of the mother's labour pain to the father.

He asked if they were willing to try it out. They were both very much in favour of it. The doctor set the pain transfer dial to 10% for starters, explaining that even 10% was probably more pain than the father had ever experienced before.

But as the labour progressed, the husband felt fine and asked the doctor to go ahead and bump it up a notch. The doctor then adjusted the machine to 20% pain transfer. The husband was still feeling fine.

The doctor checked the husband's blood pressure and was amazed at how well he was doing. At this point they decided to try for 50%.

The husband continued to feel quite well. Since it was obviously helping out his wife considerably, the husband encouraged the doctor to transfer ALL the pain to him.

The wife delivered a healthy baby with virtually no pain.

She and her husband were ecstatic.

When they got home, the mailman was lying dead on their porch.

8.My Rules Typical macho man married typical good-looking lady and after the wedding, he laid down the following rules:

"I'll be home when I want, if I want and at what time I want-and I don't expect any hassle from you. I expect a great dinner to be on the table unless I tell you that I won't be home for dinner. I'll go hunting, fishing, boozing and card-playing when I want with my old buddies and don't you give me a hard time about it. Those are my rules. Any comments?"

His new bride said, "No, that's fine with me. Just understand that there will be sex here at seven o'clock every night.. whether you're here or not."

9

he bride tells her husband

The bride tells her husband, "Honey, you know I'm a virgin and I don't know anything about sex. Can you explain it to me first?" "OK, Sweetheart. Putting it simply, we will call your private place 'the prison' and call my private thing 'the prisoner'. So what we do is: put the prisoner in the prison. And then they made love for the first time. Afterwards, the guy is lying face up on the bed, smiling with satisfaction. Nudging him, his bride giggles, "Honey the prisoner seems to have escaped." Turning on his side, he smiles. "Then we will have to re-imprison him." After the second time they spent, the guy reaches for his cigarettes but the girl, thoroughly enjoying the new experience of making love, gives him a suggestive smile, "Honey, the prisoner is out again!" The man rises to the occasion, but with the unsteady legs of a recently born foal. Afterwards, he lays back on the bed, totally exhausted. She nudges him and says, "Honey, the prisoner escaped again." Limply turning his head, He YELLS at her, "Hey, its not a life sentence, OKAY!

10.Jeff the Bellboy Three couples got married and spent their honeymoons at the same hotel, where they were all attended to by Jeff the Bellboy.

The first man married a nurse.

Jeff showed them to their room, all the while thinking to himself, "Lucky guy! Nurses are known to be hot to trot."

The second man married a telephone operator.

Jeff showed them to their room, while thinking to himself, "Wow, he's one lucky dude. Telephone operators have such sexy voices and once you pop that top button.. Va-voom."

The third man married a school teacher.

Jeff showed them to their room and thought to himself, "Poor sap. She may be pretty, but teachers are way too frigid."

At 5:30 the following morning, Jeff reported to work. He expected the teacher's husband to call for breakfast any minute, but was sure the other two wouldn't call until much later in the day.

The phone rang at 6 a.m. and it was the nurse's husband wanting breakfast. Jeff took breakfast up to the room and when the husband opened the door, Jeff stepped back in shock. The man's pajamas were still pressed and his hair nicely combed.

"Sir, what happened?" asked Jeff. "You married a nurse."

"Son, don't ever marry a nurse," the man sourly replied. "All I heard last night was her nagging voice saying, 'You're not sanitary, you're not sanitary'."

The phone rang again at 6:30 a.m. and this time it was the telephone operator's husband calling for breakfast. Jeff took it to the room as quickly as possible. When the man opened the door, Jeff stepped back in shock. The man's hair was neatly combed and his pajamas nicely pressed.

"What happened?" Jeff asked with surprise. "Telephone operators as supposed to be as sexy as their voices."

"Son, don't ever marry a telephone operator," the man groaned. "All I heard last night was her nasal voice saying, 'Your three minutes are up, your three minutes are up'."

Jeff returned to his desk, sure that the teacher's husband would be calling at any moment.

Finally, at 4 p.m., the teacher's husband called for breakfast.

Jeff couldn't believe it, but quickly took the breakfast to the couple's room. When the man opened the door, Jeff stepped back in shock. The man was wearing only a pair of boxers, his hair was a mess, and there were scratches all over his chest, arms and legs.

"My goodness sir, what happened to you?" Jeff asked, fearing the worst. "Did you have a fight?"

The man, grinning from ear to ear, happily replied, "No. Son, when you marry be sure it's to a school teacher. All I heard last night was her sexy, smooth voice saying, 'We're going to do this over, and over, and over again, until we get it right'."

http://www.coolfunnyjokes.com/Funny-Jokes/Adult-Jokes/Jeff-the-Bellboy.htmlw.

Enrollment forms

Ohhhh God, I need Your help as the post which contains transcripts, postal order en enrollment form have not reached Solicitor Regulation Authority (SRA) even though I have sent it 19 days ago. The problem is if the form does not reach SRA on time, I would not be able to be admit into LPC course 2007 this Sept. I have gone to post office to ask them about, but what they asked me to do was to fill in the form and they have no idea, where is my post now. HELLLLLLPPPPPPP ME!!!!!!!
I did try to call SRA but the office does not open on sat -sun. My mind cant think at all because of this things and I m nt be able to focus on my work, so just pls pls help me to find my letter back en SRA received the letter. Amen

relaxing day

For first time since last year in Bristol, i feel so relax even though works are waiting for me ;P. With a cup of costa coffee next to me ( finally, i gt it as i have craved for the coffee for a week!! how pathetic I am!!), the taste of the coffee is just so nice, no words can describe it.ckckckkckckckc and with companion of nice songs kekekekekeek.I just feel that life is so good to be missed.When I am looking outside through my window, I have sudden feeling that actually Bristol is not bad, it is really peaceful and quite, it is a nice place to live in. Hmmm... or is it becos of the coffee thats why I feel ths way? Strange!!!

appreciation??!!

Some times, people never appreciated what they do have until that 'appreciable thing/person' gone, then one will just realize how much has one miss that things/person. This may occur due to ego or even because one party thinks about other party the other way round than it supposed to be. Whenever, it/he/she is far away/gone, one will deeply miss it/him/her but when the things/person is around one will just act cool and pretend to be not excited and normal and the same things applicable to the things/person that has gone way in the sense they act cruelly and cool as well. I think it can be because one party thinks that it is normal to do so as nothing is going on/ if u treat me like that then i will treat u the same way or it may due to awkward feeling and there is nothing to talk abt. After all , i think the main big issue abt this things is ego en pretend dont know/nt close with each other. Some people are able to treat others very frenly even though they are strangers but some people are nt be able too. There are some people who can treat people warmly and nicely if they don see each other but when they meet that person may not be that warm and nice, not becos they are not frenly but becos they feel awkward and have nothing to say. But the real person is the one who can talk nicely en warmly without seeing each other. There are certain feeling that we can sense sometimes that people do not want to be close and frenly to us and taht may be one of the reasons of ppl acting so cool. Well, I do not knw wht I will do if I really lost my 'precious' thing/ person in my life soon. :) It can be good but it can be bad as well. Will i feel sad becos of that? the ans will be yes but will i cry for it? the ans will be not sure. SIGH......

plymouth' trip

I went to Plymouth yesterday for a day trip. It took about 2 hours to reach Plymouth from Bristol by train. I took 1144 am train to Plymouth and went back at 1825pm. Until yesterday, I had mistakenly pronounce Plymouth and no one corrected me till yesterday i was in the train and gt the correct pronunciation, it should be pronounced as Plea-mouth rather than Plai-mouth. It is a beautiful city ( something like a mixture of portsmouth becos if its harbour en southampton becos of it shopping places) en it does have a beautiful beach with alot of yachts and boats. The people are ok as well, prob almost the same like bristol .I was on the train back to Bristol when i saw a bunch of youngster who acts that they are very cool and one of them indeed tried to get my attention as i was sitting near to train window while he was nt in the train.ths days youngsters, so pathetic!!!
I bought 2 mugs fr plymouth market ( 2 for 3 pounds).

It has been a week since I came back from easter' trip with my family and their friends. Overall it was a nice trip but it is too short ( they just came here for 5 days!!) and luckily we had a nice tour guide who knew how to make jokes and to make the tour more lively. I was in London for three days, meeting up with Tim and Jamie but I did not have enough time, to meet up with Azlan and Hou Tseng. Probably, gonna meet up with them after their examinations end. We went to Buckingham palace and places nearby ie typical London trip, there was along queue to enter into Madame Tussuad but we did manage to get it as we had reservation but inside it, there were so many people so it was quite hard for us to take photo with our celebrities. I was waiting for my family to come out from the hall for nearly one hour and my parents lost their bag in Heathrow airport ( they sent it back for us when we were in Bristol in day three). We were having lunch in a pub( cant remember its name) where they do serve english traditional food (roast chicken) with tasted very nice and the area surrounding that place is amazing.

Before heading to Bristol from London, we made a couple of stop in Stonehenge and Bath. There is nothing much to see in Stonehenge except for the stones ( we were in rush as well). We did have a nice time in Bath and it is my 5/6 times to be inside Roman Bath. For lunch, we had roasted chicken as well but because my family and their friends do not really like to eat english food, most of the foods were wasted, they ate pop mee :) ( something like instant noddle). The tour guide for Stonehenge is an english man but he is able to speak bahasa Indonesia.

From Bristol, we went to Birmingham which is a big city and we gt LV bags from there ( five handbags, hehehe). We could not find the hotel as it is located in the middle of high street. Service in this hotel was not good as they were quite rude when they served breakfast. There is nothing much to see in Birmingham except that they do have Cadbury museum and a bishop cottage. They do have diversity of culture such as blacks, indians etc. it is a smaller version of London. I think Birmingham is a nice city.

From Birmingham, we headed to Manchester and we stayed in Golden Tulip which is a hotel exactly next to Manchester football stadium. Because it is easter day thus the city looked like a dead city and i think it is also because we stayed in Old Trafford. After dinner, my uncle and I went to one of the casinos in China town called Grosvenor Casino where we played Roulette. They do have a branch in Anchor Rd, Bristol. The next day, it was the time for them to go back to Singapore where they did stay for a day before heading back to Medan.

Above are some of the pics: - enjoyed :)

persuasive/'thick face'

It is nice when a person is surrounded by one's friends and family as one is not going to feel lonely and being left out, it is the feeling of being 'love', warmth and welcoming. It is nice too when one sometimes called by one's friends to go out or just to have chit chats and compare it to a person who lives far away from one's family and having a few friends. However, in my opinion, no matter how much one is close with friends and family, one in somehow still needs one' private time i.e. being alone and do whatever one wants to do to oneself. One will have 'peace' and possibly one will be able to think clearly on what one has done so far to one's life. I believe all of us need/ want this kind of time.

On the other hand, there is an existence of a human being that do not know how to respect of one's own private time/ busy time. This type of human being calls you, when he/she feels boring and have nothing to do, thats ok (I do that sometimes but to my friends who are nt busy). Sometimes, we are just being busy and have no time to talk to him/her and we have put alot of signals that we are 'busy' but ths type of human beings are just illiterate in reading that signs. If they are not be able to reach you through chat box, they will even try to call you, just because they are bored. However, when they have works to do, or going out for funs, dont expect that these human beings will come and find you. I am just very irritate and annoyed because of this type of person. It is like they do not think of others whether they are available or nt, what they do think are all about themselves i.e. they are bored and they disturb whenever there are people ( dont care whether the other party is busy or nt or do not want to be disturb by ths people) to disturb. Probably they do not know how to read signs. Any idea on how to deal with ths kind of person? gv me gv me

something that comes out fr my mind en i put it straightly

I went to TGI Fridays for lunch this afternoon with some of my friends (FL, her husband,her daughther, EL and LY). It was a very enjoyable lunch indeed everyone was enjoying themselves. Fl's husband seems to be a very nice person, knowledgable and open minded person and so does Fl, while her daughter is very pretty. I was happy about the lunch as everything was according to the plan ( its just some silly en mistake of time but it could be settle down). Other than that, I gained lots of information/ we shared alot of informations. There is a difference when one be friend with peers around one's age/ older/mature and peers whom are much youngers. As if one befriend with the older one, one is able to gain/share knowledge en information with them . while if one mix more with the younger one/ nt so mature, one tend to think more like them- more towards playing/ play around exception when the younger one is matured. Overall, it was a very enjoyable, nice,en happy lunch exception that the foods came out one hour late en the waitress was quite rude as he kept coming and asked whether we needed drinks or nt and straightly gave us the bill without us asking him.

On the way back, i was on the bus with my friends and i was observing a mother with her two children. Her children looked to be untidy en not neat. Whether a woman is a good mother or not can be seen from the way they dress and attitude of the children. What happened was ths woman was sleeping while carrying her toddler and the toddler just kept crying . Another thing was she put her daughter in a tramp en just took care of the daughter after the daughter felt off from the tramp. The children do not look really well care of. I know that it is hard to be a mum, in fact I do not think , i would be able to take care of children , looking /considering my current situations. However, no matter how hard it is to be a mum, she is still responsible for the well being of the children/ must know how to take care of them.the well being of a child is on the hand of the mum, whether the children will be smart kids, intelligent or have mannered, it is depended on the parents on how they do teach them.
The reason i said that it is hard to be a mum because she must pay a full attention to the children as some children are very active and once u turn ur head away, they will do other things which may be dangerous to themselves. It is even harder when the mum is a career woman, there are sleepless nights , on the other hand, they need to focus on their works. I can imagine, how hard it was for my mum to take care of me and i just find out the reasons why she is just so protective over me sometimes. Some parents always think that their children are still children no matter how old they are, until there is certain time when the parents think it is time to let go then just let it go, for eg marriage. but some parents are still cant let go of their childern ie to treat the children as adults even thought the children have gt married. I believe there are a lot of reasosn for that.

me, myself and I

Here I am, sitting in front of my laptop, have 2 cans of guiness, with no one in my flat( all of them have gone back to their hometown :) how nice it is,i wish that my hometown is just couples of miles away:()) thinking of wht should i write in my blog for ths week. I suppose to do my works but I just cannot be bothered with that, thinking that there is still so much time before the deadline, HOW LAZY I AM!!!
Sometimes, people judge me from the first time they saw me- like : Alice is too quiet,studious, nerd or even have no fun. However, once they get to know me better, they tend to be surprised as I am not the way I am as what they thought to be. People/my friends get to know me better by the time flies, it is because that I do not really talk about my achievements or my personal life to persons who I do not really know. I felt it very strange to talk freely to not too known friends about my personal life/love life, probably i am either too secretive about it or conservative. Another reason is because I do not think of the use of me telling everyone about my personal/love life as even if i tell them, they will not be able to help me with that, so why should i burden them with the problem? Like the other day, I was talking to one of my mates/ asking him about valentine's thingy, suddenly in the middle of 'questioning and answering' time; a question of 'who is he' who gave me a card came out. I did not answer him. The reason is not because I do not want to answer him or think that he is a 'busybody' but it is because even if i tell him, he does not know who the guy is.
On the other hand, if I were a different type of Alice Angko, like the one who is more open. For example the one who can talk freely about herself, it makes me think that I am a very show off person. I want people or my friends to know me because of who I am- alice is alice; not because of I am the daughter of who and who or what I have achieved or gained so far in my life. One will get to know about it when one has known me for quite some time or throughly.
Another problem about me is I can be very cautious sometimes about everything when I am with someone who i do not really know. Thus , when I am replying to their questions,it will be quite slow as I need to think on how i should answer him/her or even sometimes i will just be quite as i do not know them. I can be very quite, dont talk much when i feel uncomfortable or when i have no mood to talk or even when i have no topic to talk to that person. It can be seen from my facial expression as well ( prob i am just too transparent sometimes :)) I tend to let strangers/not close mates to think about what they want to think about me, 'let them be as you do not knw me, you do not know who i am'. if thats the way they want to think about me, let them be- some has even called me as a nerd. I can be playful when I am with my close friends as they are trustable but not with 'strangers' as I need to take care of myself. In fact, i do have a friend who i have known for about five years and he has just known how playful ( study hard and play hard) i am last year (2006). I think it is necessary to gain trust among friends / close friends as they are your second family. Sometimes, I can feel straight away whether that person is trustable or not, but further observation need to be done to clarify it as instinct can be wrong. A person is trustable/responsible/you feel comfortable with, when you can click straight away with them. I can feel that too when that person is interested in talkin to me.
There are indeed times for study and times for playing, some people do not know how to differentiate it.
well thats what i have in my mind so far,or thats about me so far...to be continue.. if i still have thing s to write about myself. :)

Lists of the things that I hate/dont like:
1. waiting people especially people who know that others are waiting but they still take their own sweet time for make up etc without considering the presence of the others who wait for her/him.
2. people who are 'caper'( cari perhatian)/ want to get attraction/over-reacted
3.fake people such as they can be so nice to each other like praising each other but behind they can be back stabbers. one is able to say whatever nice en b*** things but whatever she said is nothing- blank
4. waiting people shopping especially the one who is not able to made up her mind one/ lembek- the one who keep trying one cloth after another but in the end, nt buying anything, etc.
5 wasting time without doing anything
6. 'insisting/ forceable' people- people who like to force others to do something for her/him even though it is not that person's job to do so.
That's it so far...

Some professional law course students tend to think that other professional law courses is not as difficult as the former. The other day, i was talking to one of BVC students through msn, first thing that she asked me was 'which course are u in'?
my replied 'master' and the next thing that came out from her mouth was 'master is not hard rite? BVC is very difficult /BVC is very difficult compared to master'. hello, how can u know that master course is not tough as you have never taken master course before. I believe these type of students always think that they are superior compare to other professional law courses. It cannot be deniable that BVC is tough but each law course after LLB is not easy as well, I believe each law student is struggling to get their works done and no one is superior to who and whom. Pikiran cetek lar!!

Is it alright to jugde a person from his/her appearance/first impression etc? A lot of people do that, including me sometimes ;P. However, the best way to judge a person is to know them throughly before claiming wht type of persons are they. On the other hand, sometimes, one can just sense whether that person is trustable, fake or... etc. any opinion/suggestion?

fri 16 march 2007

it is a glass of beer with a phrase 'good health'.....?????!!!!
glasses in 0 degrees

my first can of guinness since last year ;P

law and medical students; abortion

Last night, I did have a very interesting discussion/conversation with one of my friends, she was telling me that law students and medical students have different perspectives in dealing with a particular topic. Is that true? According to her, that medical students tend to speak based on scientific evidence ( the existence of a particular thing must be proved before they can say it out) as they are dealing with human bodies. On the other hand, law students tend to twist our words, that we know how to play with words and not necessarily based on facts. In my opinion, it is true that as a lawyer, one must be able to use nice en beautiful words to impress clients, judges, opponents, etc but we do must speak based on the facts as well. It is because, speaking out anything ( words are beautifully come out) does not mean that one is going to win the case without grounds to support the case ( exceptional prob in closing speech). It is true that one must know how to twist words but it is only one of the factors.
Looking/Comparing these two fields fr my point of view; basically are almost similar in the sense that both dealing with humans, and the life and death of a person. For the medicals, they deal with diseases in human bodies, how to treat and cure them, life of patients etc. While for the law, we deal with human beings as well and whether the client is going to be free or serve his/her sentence behind the bar( jail, life imprisonment, death sentence).
Secondly, another topic that came out from our mind was about abortion. According to Abortion Act 1967, abortion is allowed to be performed when continuance of pregnancy involved a greater risk to physical/ mental health of the woman/ her existing children. The woman actual/ reasonably foreseeable future environment must be taken into account. Abortion up to 24 weeks are allowed if substantial risk that the child when born would suffer 'such physical/ mental abnormalities as to be seriously handicapped. If there is 'foreseeable future' that the unborn child is going to be a handicapped, is that mean that handicapped child has no right to enjoy life in this world? How about is the 'foreseeable future' or evidence/ report which stated that the child will be handicapped, turn out to be inaccurate? it will not just ruin the right to life of the unborn child but also any other right which he/ she is entitled to.
So, should abortion be legalize or not? in my opinion , legalization of abortion is good as when abortion is not legalized, pregnant girls or women may just go to unhealthy or non-hygienic clinics etc to have abortions. However, there may be disadvantages of legalization of abortion.
Without looking at the law, what is the best and suitable time to have an abortion if a girl/ a woman gets pregnant? I think there are a lot of factors that need to be taken into account such as age, environment i.e. society/family which one has been brought up, one's situations etc. Age- whether the girl/ woman is too young or too old to be pregnant, environment- whether the society is from modernize / liberal society or conservative society, and one 's situations- factors surrounding her.

You Know You're From Britain When...

You believe that Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday and Saturday are all good nights for drinking. Sunday day is also entirely reasonable. You're always a half an hour late to work ... no-one notices or cares. Coming to work with a hangover is entirely accepted and indeed expected at least once a week. You can actually give directions to some of those annoying tourists in Oxford Street! You step over a drunk in the tube station rather than offering to help them. You don't even bother looking out of the window when you get up in the morning to check what the day is like. You know it is overcast. You consider a suit to be normal attire for the pub. You expect men to actually cut, comb and style their hair (using hair products). And to wear decent clothes. You dissolve in laughter when listening to the funny accent of the Aussie international telephone operator (or on TV!). You think �40 for a haircut is quite reasonable. You can't remember what 'customer service' means. After a big night out you find yourself looking for a Curry house More than three hours sunlight on summer days seems excessive. You don't think twice about tipping your hairdresser You finish every sentence with 'Cheers' or 'Yeah'. You only just realise you have lost your sunnies, you left them in Greece 2 summers ago. You like English cuisine. I mean, it's hard to beat a full English breakfast. You are on to your 6th umbrella and your second overcoat... this year You've bought a disposable baby BBQ from Tesco. A day at the beach means wearing the warmest clothes you own while standing on golf ball-size pebbles and the thought of swimming doesn't even enter your head. You always call soccer football and you have a team and it's not Manchester United. You don't think twice about buying a packaged sandwich. A sunny lunchtime means searching for a patch of grass and stripping off practically down to your underwear You've accepted queuing as a way of life. You believe that every American is a fatass addicted to hamburgers and hotdogs. You despise the French (but then, who doesn't?). You actually get these jokes and pass them on to other friends from Britan.

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