problems

In order to avoid problems, some people drink a lot of liquors to get rid of the problems. They feel that there is no other way to solve the problems. By becoming drunk, they do not need to think of the problems which happen to them. Instead of drinking , they should try to solve the problems.
These happens to one aunt who has a problem with her husband. It can be said that something really bad has happened to the marriage. There is a lack of communication between them. In my opinion, they should at least try to communicate with each other, speak out their mind. As long as they have the intention to save the marriage, then the marriage will be fined.
from what i see, nowadays especially in Asia, a couple who do not love each other anymore and who have been married for a long time , tend to stay in the marriage for the sake of the children, as if this couple separate, the children are the one who will suffer.
However, nowadays, i can also see that many young couples if they do not like each other anymore, they will separate. It seems that the Asian culture is going to be similar to western culture

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Being raised up by conservative and strict parents and grow up in quite a modern society ,sometimes it makes me confuse, it is either should i act conservatively or the other way round.
If i act conservatively, then there is no way that i can catch up with the world and vice versa.
there are prohibition from my father- no drinking,no drugs,no smoking and no pubs.
sometimes, it is not good to put too much restriction on the child, come on i am 20 years old. there should be freedom to act or to do what i want as long as it is reasonable.

yesterday night, there were two British who were drinking till drunk and vomitted it out and was unable to go to the school the next day. it was because my parents and their friends had really asked them to drink (4 bottles of guinnes, 6 bottles of beer and 7 bottles of wine) . it was really a fun night, seeing them really drunk and they were really blurred, sang songs, haya really dont know hoe to explain it,but it really fun.

family ,rich ,or poor

i had attended a weddinng ceremony few days ago, the ceremony and all the things were doing well but i was not comfortable with the people , maybe i should interact more with others. the reasons i felt uncomfortable ;
i think is because of the social status. the group that I am talking about about is from a higher status group of people, what i mean is that this type of people are from a rich class and i have difficulty in communicating with them, The second thing is some of these may just nice to see but not nice to touch, they have a good appearance(nice looking,look like a rich people but actually are not)
Thirdly, eventhough they are family but they can gossiping/talk bad things about others . some of these people arev taliking bad about others in order to make them look better than others.
they may rich in financial but they are not rich in their relationship with each other.
for me, as a family, they should have cooperation and help each other. Instead of having it, they tease each other and show off to each other on who is richer than who.
It makes me think that a brother and a sister who are from a poor family has a stronger relationship than those who is vice versa.

my trips

day 1 11/11 (thurs) klia-penang
i had woke up at 5.45 am to go klia for a flight to penang. I stayed in corpthorne orchid in tanjung bungah. it is quite an affordable hotel and the staff were quite friendly especially the bell boy. they have free shuttle service bus.Later i went to aunt's house and komtar to eat famous ice kacang. finally i can find the place.
day2 12/11 (fri) penang
checked out frm the hotel then heading ti holiday inn in batu ferringghi. couldnt go anywhere, it rained almost the whole night.

An article stated that penang has no attraction /has not changed that much.Further tourisms' places have no improvement at all. However, according to me, penang has changed in some parts if we look into detail and it is quite a good place to go.

Day 3 13/11 (sat) penang-hatyai
went to penang airport in order to wait for my family to come(26 people) then all of us would take abus to hatyai. on the way, the bus had broken down for almost 2 hours. Reached hatyai at night. some thai words:
nong,nong-young girl
khap kun ka- thanks for girl
think nan ba- chili

day 4 14/11 (sun) hatyai-phuket
heading to hatyai airport for phuket. It was a small aeroplane and it was not stable. thereafter, we went to see some jewelleries and honey. Linch time, we had gone to the biggest buffet in phuket. Phuket has 2 statutes which are 2 women who used to fight to defend phuket from being taken by burmese. visited some temples

Day5 15/11 (sat) phuket-phi phi island
after breakfast, we went to phi phi island by ferry . it took 2 hours to reach there. phi phi island is anice place to go and the things are cheaper than phuket. They have 2 sides of beach. On the way back, I saw a bunch of people were doing chris jumping which i think is quite fun.

Day 6 16/11 (sun) phuket -city tour
'si bin hut' it is a nice place as we can see an ocean. thereafter, we went to elephant jungle trekking. the elephant which i took is 45 years old. Elephants usually can live till 100 years old. quite scarry at first but it was fun.

day 7 17/11 (mon) phuket-hatyai-penang
in hatyai , we did some shopping as we needed to catch up bus to penang.
day8 18/11 (tues) penang-kl
one of my mum's luggage had been damaged by the staff , went to claim
day 9 19/11 &10 20/11
genting, went inside the casino.it is quite big but i think most of the games are the same
day 11 &12-genting