I had quite an interesting conversation with my fren the other day, we were talking about friends relationships. It is amazing when we are able to contact old friends whom we have not met for years or at least there is communication even though we live apart as it is hard to do so. However, increases en development in technology such as friendster, msn, skype, etc have helped us to keep in touch with friends, thanks to the development.
However, these technologies wont help much if we as friends do not make efforts to contact each other. One party may make any effort to contact each other but not the other party, result of it would be nill. It happened to me during last summer holidays en in previous holidays, where it seemed to be so hard to ask my frens out (the one in my hometown) even though it was for lunch en it was on weekend, lots of excuses were given such as ' ohhh i have no driver, that place is too far away fr my place, can u come en fetch me ( guys u knw that fr my place to the resto en ur house is totally diff road' bla bla bla. en everytime i asked them out, there will just be lots of excuse, 'next time we go....' Since then , i have stopped to make any of invitation to ask them out. While , some would like to go out with you , just because she is salegirls en she wants to promote her products, if nt she will make lots of excuses as well.
Back to technology thingy, it seems that some people have misled the used of it by using it as 'sex thingy' etc. people who do that probably have no real sex life, they r bored , en nt really dare to face the world or some even do it just for fun, so there are disadvantages n advantages in the technology en we must be careful with those ppl.