In life we r obliged to follow rules and procedures and decisions and actions that we take, may be agreed or criticize by others. We have no right to rebut and try to change the thinking of the others to us. However, the worst part is some people criticise and form their opinion towards one due to what ever have been told by some one else to that person. Instead of asking for clarification, that some people just straightaway agree with that someone. It is called as 'telinga ringan' in Malay.
Also, in life , I believe that we should be more open towards each other and not carrying a big sword and stab a person from behind esp if that person used to always said 'oh....i m a good fren or who and bla bla bla/ we r best frens...bla bla bla' all of these are just bull****. It clearly show that that person has not enough gut to tell his/her so called 'fren' the truth and keep one lie by one lie. He/she cant be classified as good/best/closed frens if in the end wht have they done just to hurt a person ie his/her best/good/closed fren very badly.
Sometimes, tht best/good/ closed fren is just jealous of the other as the other has something which he/she doesnt have and the only way to make his/her fren jealous/revenge is to take something which is really important fr his/her best fren away. However, cases may vary. In my case that is the case. There are a few points that i can learn from it is never ever trust a person even though they claim to be ur best fren unless if u have knwn them for a long time n u trust them. secondly, keep mouth shut to some certain people.
