It is nice when a person is surrounded by one's friends and family as one is not going to feel lonely and being left out, it is the feeling of being 'love', warmth and welcoming. It is nice too when one sometimes called by one's friends to go out or just to have chit chats and compare it to a person who lives far away from one's family and having a few friends. However, in my opinion, no matter how much one is close with friends and family, one in somehow still needs one' private time i.e. being alone and do whatever one wants to do to oneself. One will have 'peace' and possibly one will be able to think clearly on what one has done so far to one's life. I believe all of us need/ want this kind of time.
On the other hand, there is an existence of a human being that do not know how to respect of one's own private time/ busy time. This type of human being calls you, when he/she feels boring and have nothing to do, thats ok (I do that sometimes but to my friends who are nt busy). Sometimes, we are just being busy and have no time to talk to him/her and we have put alot of signals that we are 'busy' but ths type of human beings are just illiterate in reading that signs. If they are not be able to reach you through chat box, they will even try to call you, just because they are bored. However, when they have works to do, or going out for funs, dont expect that these human beings will come and find you. I am just very irritate and annoyed because of this type of person. It is like they do not think of others whether they are available or nt, what they do think are all about themselves i.e. they are bored and they disturb whenever there are people ( dont care whether the other party is busy or nt or do not want to be disturb by ths people) to disturb. Probably they do not know how to read signs. Any idea on how to deal with ths kind of person? gv me gv me
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