I went to TGI Fridays for lunch this afternoon with some of my friends (FL, her husband,her daughther, EL and LY). It was a very enjoyable lunch indeed everyone was enjoying themselves. Fl's husband seems to be a very nice person, knowledgable and open minded person and so does Fl, while her daughter is very pretty. I was happy about the lunch as everything was according to the plan ( its just some silly en mistake of time but it could be settle down). Other than that, I gained lots of information/ we shared alot of informations. There is a difference when one be friend with peers around one's age/ older/mature and peers whom are much youngers. As if one befriend with the older one, one is able to gain/share knowledge en information with them . while if one mix more with the younger one/ nt so mature, one tend to think more like them- more towards playing/ play around exception when the younger one is matured. Overall, it was a very enjoyable, nice,en happy lunch exception that the foods came out one hour late en the waitress was quite rude as he kept coming and asked whether we needed drinks or nt and straightly gave us the bill without us asking him.
On the way back, i was on the bus with my friends and i was observing a mother with her two children. Her children looked to be untidy en not neat. Whether a woman is a good mother or not can be seen from the way they dress and attitude of the children. What happened was ths woman was sleeping while carrying her toddler and the toddler just kept crying . Another thing was she put her daughter in a tramp en just took care of the daughter after the daughter felt off from the tramp. The children do not look really well care of. I know that it is hard to be a mum, in fact I do not think , i would be able to take care of children , looking /considering my current situations. However, no matter how hard it is to be a mum, she is still responsible for the well being of the children/ must know how to take care of them.the well being of a child is on the hand of the mum, whether the children will be smart kids, intelligent or have mannered, it is depended on the parents on how they do teach them.
The reason i said that it is hard to be a mum because she must pay a full attention to the children as some children are very active and once u turn ur head away, they will do other things which may be dangerous to themselves. It is even harder when the mum is a career woman, there are sleepless nights , on the other hand, they need to focus on their works. I can imagine, how hard it was for my mum to take care of me and i just find out the reasons why she is just so protective over me sometimes. Some parents always think that their children are still children no matter how old they are, until there is certain time when the parents think it is time to let go then just let it go, for eg marriage. but some parents are still cant let go of their childern ie to treat the children as adults even thought the children have gt married. I believe there are a lot of reasosn for that.
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