One of my friends has asked me on how do I define a person as 'bad'? A bad person is a person who has done a crime. then she said 'how about a person who has done something immoral but not illegal such as a guy who has slept around with girls? Is he a bad guy or not?
The question that i asked her was whether the girls intended to have it too. If both parties are willing to have it, then the guy is not a bad person unless he has done it without the other party intention.
It is true that it is immoral but not illegal and looking at today's society (especially western culture) a lot of people are having sex before married. As long as they know how to prevent something to happen, that is ok.
On the other hand, before they are going to have it, girls especially must think of the consequence. It's true that it might be fun but all of us cant predict the future.
Her definition of a woman is a person who has already had sex. Oh ,no
A woman is a person who knows how to take care of herself,mature,has a job,and knows how to think as a woman.
I think I should wash her brain next time if I meet her again.
hahaha
Tuesday, September 28, 2004
Friday, September 24, 2004
media
Nowadays ,media like newspapers contain alot of bad news. The question which comes into my mind is 'is the news reliable or can it be trust?. some writers might just add something to make an article looks more interesting. Every articles which has been made by the writers contain their own views. It can be siad that every writer has their own styles of writing and their own ways to interpret every incidents. For example a writer has a trauma on abuse cases. the writer might interpret the incident differently from others as the writer has been through the incident.
It can also be said taht never believe anything till u see it by yourselves.
It can also be said taht never believe anything till u see it by yourselves.
class
from my observation, it seems that the combining class has no co-operation at all. It divides into groupd. Everbody minds their own business. You,you, me,me. After all , I still prefer my old class.
We have land law,company law,equity and trust and tort in yr2. Land law and company law are teached by Miss Jane who likes to say 'yu huu', sap sap sui ( Tim and Azlan said sei sei sei), a piece of cake' (too friendly lecturer). The way she teaches us is like a kangoroo. I am really blurred.
Tort lecturer, miss Tan likes to say 'do u follow me' at the end of every sentences that she has said.
Miss Lau-equity and trust as what my classmates claim as the second Mr Balraj. However she is good in teaching.
I dont know why these days i am becoming more and more like a lazy worm. Lazy to read, lazy to come to every single class,always feel sleepy especially company and land law lectures. Is that because all the classes start in the afternoon? No single lectures comes into my mind. Maybe I should check my brain already,hahaha
We have land law,company law,equity and trust and tort in yr2. Land law and company law are teached by Miss Jane who likes to say 'yu huu', sap sap sui ( Tim and Azlan said sei sei sei), a piece of cake' (too friendly lecturer). The way she teaches us is like a kangoroo. I am really blurred.
Tort lecturer, miss Tan likes to say 'do u follow me' at the end of every sentences that she has said.
Miss Lau-equity and trust as what my classmates claim as the second Mr Balraj. However she is good in teaching.
I dont know why these days i am becoming more and more like a lazy worm. Lazy to read, lazy to come to every single class,always feel sleepy especially company and land law lectures. Is that because all the classes start in the afternoon? No single lectures comes into my mind. Maybe I should check my brain already,hahaha
Saturday, September 18, 2004
feelings and logics
It is said that women use feelings to deal with problems ,on the other hand men use logics to solve problems. Is that true?
My teacher has given me one of the example, why does a woman cry when they break up with her boyfriend? but it does not happen to men ( some may cry). The answer is because women deal with feelings but men use logics.
To this extent, I agree with him but not all the time that woman is the one who is crying. What happened if the woman herself is the one who asks for break up?
who is going to cry? man , woman or no one?
Further, not all the time, women use feelings to deal with problems, sometimes we use logics
My teacher has given me one of the example, why does a woman cry when they break up with her boyfriend? but it does not happen to men ( some may cry). The answer is because women deal with feelings but men use logics.
To this extent, I agree with him but not all the time that woman is the one who is crying. What happened if the woman herself is the one who asks for break up?
who is going to cry? man , woman or no one?
Further, not all the time, women use feelings to deal with problems, sometimes we use logics
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WTC-11/9, USA
Bom Kuningan -10/9,Jakarta near Australia embassy
Bom Bali- 12/10,Bali ,attacked most Australian
It seems that the months and dates for the attack are quite close. Is there any hints that the attackers would like to show?
Bom Kuningan -10/9,Jakarta near Australia embassy
Bom Bali- 12/10,Bali ,attacked most Australian
It seems that the months and dates for the attack are quite close. Is there any hints that the attackers would like to show?
Monday, September 13, 2004
the most wonderful 8 months in KDU
time has passed very fast, now is in sept yr2. In these 8 months , I have been met new people, old friends, meet and separate, it is the nature of human life.
Before the orintation day or before I reached KDU hostel , there was delay in those 2 flights, and with no one in the hostel and the place is like an ulu area. The reason why i refer my classmates as james bond and charlie's angels is because there is only 2 guys in class with 4 girls . For the girls ,i refer as charlie angels because there are 3 girls excluding me.
within these 8 months , there was happiness, sadness,madness etc , with all those tortutes (deadline for the mooting (not reliable photocopy centre), assignments' deadline bla bla, it makes us to know each other better. However, it seems that from 6 persons ,there will be destructured in year 2, so should i still call them by those nicknames.
let me introduce the 2 james bond ( Azlan and Tim) and the charlie angels are Jamie, munwei and joey.
-mr president of law society (azlan bin zainal abidin) or pak lan; own a special car park in kdu which he refers as 'presidential car park'. he is from kiasu land, always wear jeans and shirts (nautica,timberland,fcuk,etc) with his calvin klien's bag and always carry 2 to 3 files a day. he has a lot of branded shoes and i am just wandering how many shoes does he has (one of it is a pair of orange shoes).i have never seen any guy who has that much shoes. with his bergaya way of walking(hahaha),for breakfast, -a bottle of orange juice and sometimes sandwich. he is the oldest one from all of us.
-mr secretary of law society (tim or low weng tchung), a very responsible guy-black,white and blue shirts guy( but it seems that he has wear other colour shirts already). Ask him evrything abou laws,he is going to give u a reliable answer-master of the law. Always carry his confidential documents (hahaha) in his favourite Times' bag.Sometimes wear either shirts or T shirt or jeans or slacks with his favourite 2 pairs of sports shoes-blue or white. Coffee is his compulsory breakfast , cannot live without coffee (what he told us- 2 sachetsof creams and 1 sachet sugars). without breakfast he is blurred. Smiling by covering his mouth ,hahaha.
- Miss Jamie wong siew min, an active girl- colourful girl especially purple,everything is purple and she likes to wear purple jewelleries.She is good in playing basket ball but sometimes quite blurred. she cannot live without ice cream , ice creams is her essential needs. She can be very serious(just look at her serious face, u can be scared already) and sometimes can be very funny.
-miss joey lee ngau yen-a fair girl in class, first thing that we can easily recognise her from her is her hair-long and nice, may be she can be a promoter for every single shampoo because she has a very nice hair, she likes purple too.She comes to KDU by driving her BMW but so sad, she is not going to join us in year 2.joey good luck in everthing that u do as long as it is for a good purpose.
- miss choo munwei- a girl from ipoh and always comes to KDU with an umbrella (if the weather is hot) , elle school bag. she is a person that can keep her promise. if in a contract, something something is a bionding contract, then her promise is abinding contract.. she is also a type of a person who is not scared to speak it out.
These was what happened within these 8 months:
Jan-orientation day, met Azlan on that day, on wednesday met the others. All of them were quite cool except Azlan and munwei.
Joey- just smile and continued talking to her friend(what her name alraedy) 'I am joey fr alevel -SIT
Jamie-just smiled, talked a bit with joey 'hi, i am jamie , alevel programme fr KDU
Tim-T-shirt,jeans and a cap 'hi, i am low weng tchung but u can call me tim,and i am from kdu
Azlan-late, came out with his yellow jersey shirt 'sorry i am late, i am Azlan fromATC
Miss Quah:' Alice, are u chinese?
JAMIES'S BIRTHDAY 16 JAN
Miss Savita-first day in class had already explained consti law
Mr Balraj- skipped first class and a 'sisi" lecturer, liked to call azlan
fEB/MARCH-
Tim- '3 words to describe me' 'i am sexy'
March-debate - are u with lord woolf or michael zander
debate (azlan, tim, munwei and jamie)
JOEY'S BIRTHDAY 20 MARCH
April-interview-miss siti ''i'm miss price , whta is ur name'?
Alice was quite blurred ' i 'm ur lawyer
-mooting-photocopy centre not open for a few days
Alice 'gradual revolutio read gratitious revolution'
Miss Savita" alice, i thought you were Iban"
May- Miss Meera asked about tamed and untamed animals, Tim -' tiger is a tamed animal'
(he thought miss meera asked him about wild creatures)
Tim' can ask alice to go ou for lunch,,,,,is a personal triumph ( question mark in alice's mind till now)
lunch in IKEA- long chicken bratwurst- driver-azlan (hahaha
next day in 1utama ( first time all of us went out together) watched 'the day after tomorrow' -tim and jamie' cars
June
mr balraj had quitted so all of us needed to catch up with contract law
penang's trip (joey alice and munwei) 5 of june
Miss Quah "alice u can speak hokkien"
euro 2004(24 june) - Eng V portugal -wacthed in tim's house
AZLAN'S BIRTHDAY 26 JUNE
TIM'S BIRTHDAY 29 JUNE
Jul -red box karaoke
Miss savita 'azlan,....is it unfair or not?'
Azlan 'miss can u repeat again'
Miss savita ' azlan , is there any different if there is no royal prerogative'
azlan 'miss there is no difference at all'
miss Savita ' taxi drivers answer'
Jamie has played basketball represents KDU. The next day she claimed that her whole body was so paint. Jamie became an old grandma alraedy
Tim-played futsall, got harmstring, walked like old grandpa
Azlan-played futsall, forgot to cut his toes nails, the results......
MUNWEI'S BIRTHDAY 2 JUL
AUG
study break
exams
Azlan " I am not going out till exams finish'
japanese buffet
italian buffet
red box
Before the orintation day or before I reached KDU hostel , there was delay in those 2 flights, and with no one in the hostel and the place is like an ulu area. The reason why i refer my classmates as james bond and charlie's angels is because there is only 2 guys in class with 4 girls . For the girls ,i refer as charlie angels because there are 3 girls excluding me.
within these 8 months , there was happiness, sadness,madness etc , with all those tortutes (deadline for the mooting (not reliable photocopy centre), assignments' deadline bla bla, it makes us to know each other better. However, it seems that from 6 persons ,there will be destructured in year 2, so should i still call them by those nicknames.
let me introduce the 2 james bond ( Azlan and Tim) and the charlie angels are Jamie, munwei and joey.
-mr president of law society (azlan bin zainal abidin) or pak lan; own a special car park in kdu which he refers as 'presidential car park'. he is from kiasu land, always wear jeans and shirts (nautica,timberland,fcuk,etc) with his calvin klien's bag and always carry 2 to 3 files a day. he has a lot of branded shoes and i am just wandering how many shoes does he has (one of it is a pair of orange shoes).i have never seen any guy who has that much shoes. with his bergaya way of walking(hahaha),for breakfast, -a bottle of orange juice and sometimes sandwich. he is the oldest one from all of us.
-mr secretary of law society (tim or low weng tchung), a very responsible guy-black,white and blue shirts guy( but it seems that he has wear other colour shirts already). Ask him evrything abou laws,he is going to give u a reliable answer-master of the law. Always carry his confidential documents (hahaha) in his favourite Times' bag.Sometimes wear either shirts or T shirt or jeans or slacks with his favourite 2 pairs of sports shoes-blue or white. Coffee is his compulsory breakfast , cannot live without coffee (what he told us- 2 sachetsof creams and 1 sachet sugars). without breakfast he is blurred. Smiling by covering his mouth ,hahaha.
- Miss Jamie wong siew min, an active girl- colourful girl especially purple,everything is purple and she likes to wear purple jewelleries.She is good in playing basket ball but sometimes quite blurred. she cannot live without ice cream , ice creams is her essential needs. She can be very serious(just look at her serious face, u can be scared already) and sometimes can be very funny.
-miss joey lee ngau yen-a fair girl in class, first thing that we can easily recognise her from her is her hair-long and nice, may be she can be a promoter for every single shampoo because she has a very nice hair, she likes purple too.She comes to KDU by driving her BMW but so sad, she is not going to join us in year 2.joey good luck in everthing that u do as long as it is for a good purpose.
- miss choo munwei- a girl from ipoh and always comes to KDU with an umbrella (if the weather is hot) , elle school bag. she is a person that can keep her promise. if in a contract, something something is a bionding contract, then her promise is abinding contract.. she is also a type of a person who is not scared to speak it out.
These was what happened within these 8 months:
Jan-orientation day, met Azlan on that day, on wednesday met the others. All of them were quite cool except Azlan and munwei.
Joey- just smile and continued talking to her friend(what her name alraedy) 'I am joey fr alevel -SIT
Jamie-just smiled, talked a bit with joey 'hi, i am jamie , alevel programme fr KDU
Tim-T-shirt,jeans and a cap 'hi, i am low weng tchung but u can call me tim,and i am from kdu
Azlan-late, came out with his yellow jersey shirt 'sorry i am late, i am Azlan fromATC
Miss Quah:' Alice, are u chinese?
JAMIES'S BIRTHDAY 16 JAN
Miss Savita-first day in class had already explained consti law
Mr Balraj- skipped first class and a 'sisi" lecturer, liked to call azlan
fEB/MARCH-
Tim- '3 words to describe me' 'i am sexy'
March-debate - are u with lord woolf or michael zander
debate (azlan, tim, munwei and jamie)
JOEY'S BIRTHDAY 20 MARCH
April-interview-miss siti ''i'm miss price , whta is ur name'?
Alice was quite blurred ' i 'm ur lawyer
-mooting-photocopy centre not open for a few days
Alice 'gradual revolutio read gratitious revolution'
Miss Savita" alice, i thought you were Iban"
May- Miss Meera asked about tamed and untamed animals, Tim -' tiger is a tamed animal'
(he thought miss meera asked him about wild creatures)
Tim' can ask alice to go ou for lunch,,,,,is a personal triumph ( question mark in alice's mind till now)
lunch in IKEA- long chicken bratwurst- driver-azlan (hahaha
next day in 1utama ( first time all of us went out together) watched 'the day after tomorrow' -tim and jamie' cars
June
mr balraj had quitted so all of us needed to catch up with contract law
penang's trip (joey alice and munwei) 5 of june
Miss Quah "alice u can speak hokkien"
euro 2004(24 june) - Eng V portugal -wacthed in tim's house
AZLAN'S BIRTHDAY 26 JUNE
TIM'S BIRTHDAY 29 JUNE
Jul -red box karaoke
Miss savita 'azlan,....is it unfair or not?'
Azlan 'miss can u repeat again'
Miss savita ' azlan , is there any different if there is no royal prerogative'
azlan 'miss there is no difference at all'
miss Savita ' taxi drivers answer'
Jamie has played basketball represents KDU. The next day she claimed that her whole body was so paint. Jamie became an old grandma alraedy
Tim-played futsall, got harmstring, walked like old grandpa
Azlan-played futsall, forgot to cut his toes nails, the results......
MUNWEI'S BIRTHDAY 2 JUL
AUG
study break
exams
Azlan " I am not going out till exams finish'
japanese buffet
italian buffet
red box
Wednesday, September 08, 2004
education system
it seems that Indo education system is very conservative, in the sense that students do not have rights to speak /to speak up their mind. Headmasters and teachers think that they have more power and are in better position than students. Like what happened today was I went to my brother's school with mum because of what he had done at school (coret beberapa kata and erased the headmaster's name). The headmaster then told mum about the problem and he sounded like he had given up with my bro. Then i was just express my opinion by saying that one of the tasks of a school is to discipline students and it seemed that the headmaster has given up, then suddenly he used a loud voice to say that he has not given up and he asked me to shut up. mum was the one who has the right to speak and he asked me to get out from the roomn.
From what I see is the headmaster's first impression towards my bro has already not good. He has tried a lot of ways to ask my bro to get out from the school everytime he made a mistake
Further, is that a headmaster that saying that the student is stupid, useless to the school,spoil and make the school has bad reputation?
to me, nobody is stupid, everyone has brain, it only depends on how are they going to use it.
It just does not make sense that as an educator,he scolded the student like that. Is he a headmaster or not or just a person that just come ou from 'tanjung rambutan?
Another problim is by the used of the word 'kamu' and 'kau'. If u are an educator , he should know the difference. 'kau' is used by not really an education person and the headmaster as an educator and what he claims that he is 'kepala sekolah'( thinks that he is great) used the word 'kau'.
he has asked my bro to write a letter which states that my bro is wrong and the letter is written without any force from whoever or whatever.
here , i dont think there is a binding contract as the letter was dictated by the headmaster, it has contradicted with the phrase 'without any force from whoever....'
The headmaster also breach human rights act.
by scorsing him, I dont think there is a used of it, the headmaster should as bro to do other things such as clean school's toilets for a week. I think it is better than scorsing for a week.
The headmaster should ask himself too, why there are alot of students who dont like him? not just complaining to the parents. he should find ways to help the student not just complaining to the parents.
there was one time, the headmaster scolded my mum by saying 'dont think that just because you are rich, you can let ur son to study here'. what a headmaster, as a headmaster , he should not use that sentence. the school is not like a very great school, it just a school that just really open fron 2 years. the school is not as great as sutomo or methodisth
Doesnt he think that by saying that the student is stupid,he let the student down and he may not have the confident at all which may not make the student to be a better student but it may be worse.
I have never seen such a headmaster before eventhough i have studied in a few schools ,binasiswa-methodisth-binghua-taylors-kdu.
the headmaster has no brain
From what I see is the headmaster's first impression towards my bro has already not good. He has tried a lot of ways to ask my bro to get out from the school everytime he made a mistake
Further, is that a headmaster that saying that the student is stupid, useless to the school,spoil and make the school has bad reputation?
to me, nobody is stupid, everyone has brain, it only depends on how are they going to use it.
It just does not make sense that as an educator,he scolded the student like that. Is he a headmaster or not or just a person that just come ou from 'tanjung rambutan?
Another problim is by the used of the word 'kamu' and 'kau'. If u are an educator , he should know the difference. 'kau' is used by not really an education person and the headmaster as an educator and what he claims that he is 'kepala sekolah'( thinks that he is great) used the word 'kau'.
he has asked my bro to write a letter which states that my bro is wrong and the letter is written without any force from whoever or whatever.
here , i dont think there is a binding contract as the letter was dictated by the headmaster, it has contradicted with the phrase 'without any force from whoever....'
The headmaster also breach human rights act.
by scorsing him, I dont think there is a used of it, the headmaster should as bro to do other things such as clean school's toilets for a week. I think it is better than scorsing for a week.
The headmaster should ask himself too, why there are alot of students who dont like him? not just complaining to the parents. he should find ways to help the student not just complaining to the parents.
there was one time, the headmaster scolded my mum by saying 'dont think that just because you are rich, you can let ur son to study here'. what a headmaster, as a headmaster , he should not use that sentence. the school is not like a very great school, it just a school that just really open fron 2 years. the school is not as great as sutomo or methodisth
Doesnt he think that by saying that the student is stupid,he let the student down and he may not have the confident at all which may not make the student to be a better student but it may be worse.
I have never seen such a headmaster before eventhough i have studied in a few schools ,binasiswa-methodisth-binghua-taylors-kdu.
the headmaster has no brain
Saturday, September 04, 2004
love and family
today, my teacher has asked us about what are the thing that can make us happy? he gave us a lot of choices such as money, prestige,power,family, love,etc and we only could cj\hoose one.
to me the most important things in life which can make us happy is love, without love,life will be so dull,life would be a lor\t of jealousy ,hate,envy etc. money cannot buy love, why? love is just like a pure thing which can hurt us and also can make us happy. it is just depend on us, in what point of view we look at the meaning of love.In some certain situations, love could buy love but could it be a true/pure love which exists just because there is alove? or is it exist just because of something?
if love exists just because a person wants to gain something from others, that is not a true love and it wont last long, and the outcome of it wont be good.
if one wants tp do something just do it with love and definetely the outcome will be better than a person whop does something without love.Love is the purest things in this world but it can be very dangerous, dangerous in the sense that it wont hurt us physically but mentally, so becareful when dealing wu\ith love.
to my teacher opinion, love is the basic of everthing, love can buy evrthing. At first it doesnot make sense for me, but after his explanation, i think what he has said is true.
he does not believe in friendship forever which i think is quite true as friends may not last forever, people may be separated just because of something.The sentence "friendship forever" is nonsense as it only exists in words not the actions. That is his opinion and he thinks that familt is the most important. I agree with him but just because i want to argue with him so i choose friends.
friends may not always be there for you , they may be there when u are happy only or when problems that u have do not have effects on their life. on the other hand family is there for you as long as u want. just let me tell u one of the example,touch wood, lets say one have a car accident, are u going to call ur friends or family? and at that time, ur friends have their final examinations (important). on the other hand ur parents have a meeting which is very important which involves billions dollars and it also must be settled at that time too. just think who is going to turned down their important things and look after u? ur parents rite?
to me the most important things in life which can make us happy is love, without love,life will be so dull,life would be a lor\t of jealousy ,hate,envy etc. money cannot buy love, why? love is just like a pure thing which can hurt us and also can make us happy. it is just depend on us, in what point of view we look at the meaning of love.In some certain situations, love could buy love but could it be a true/pure love which exists just because there is alove? or is it exist just because of something?
if love exists just because a person wants to gain something from others, that is not a true love and it wont last long, and the outcome of it wont be good.
if one wants tp do something just do it with love and definetely the outcome will be better than a person whop does something without love.Love is the purest things in this world but it can be very dangerous, dangerous in the sense that it wont hurt us physically but mentally, so becareful when dealing wu\ith love.
to my teacher opinion, love is the basic of everthing, love can buy evrthing. At first it doesnot make sense for me, but after his explanation, i think what he has said is true.
he does not believe in friendship forever which i think is quite true as friends may not last forever, people may be separated just because of something.The sentence "friendship forever" is nonsense as it only exists in words not the actions. That is his opinion and he thinks that familt is the most important. I agree with him but just because i want to argue with him so i choose friends.
friends may not always be there for you , they may be there when u are happy only or when problems that u have do not have effects on their life. on the other hand family is there for you as long as u want. just let me tell u one of the example,touch wood, lets say one have a car accident, are u going to call ur friends or family? and at that time, ur friends have their final examinations (important). on the other hand ur parents have a meeting which is very important which involves billions dollars and it also must be settled at that time too. just think who is going to turned down their important things and look after u? ur parents rite?
Wednesday, September 01, 2004
home
finnally,i can sit down in front of my computer ,relax and relief all my stress. I have english tuition for these 3 days and day by day i learn a new thing and this teacher is very knowledgeable. further he is very open minded and i just like to keep arguing with him. first discussion that he gave us was 'do u live to aet or do u eat to live? i chose the latter but he can argue with me till i agree with him for the former one.
second day, he has asked which one is more important friends or family. for me , family is more important but because i like to argue with him so i chose friends but because he is also stubborn we have extended the da\ebate for another 30 minutes. however, today, after a long debate, finally i can make this tecaher agree with me.
for tennis,the teacher is very punctual even more pnctual than me and he doesnt like to wait people for a long time not even 5 minutes . but he is good. actually i have alot of things to write but this special artiv\cle has not perfect yet maybe i will put it later. these few daysa i am quite busy and happy.
second day, he has asked which one is more important friends or family. for me , family is more important but because i like to argue with him so i chose friends but because he is also stubborn we have extended the da\ebate for another 30 minutes. however, today, after a long debate, finally i can make this tecaher agree with me.
for tennis,the teacher is very punctual even more pnctual than me and he doesnt like to wait people for a long time not even 5 minutes . but he is good. actually i have alot of things to write but this special artiv\cle has not perfect yet maybe i will put it later. these few daysa i am quite busy and happy.
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