gak adil

banyak hal yang gak adil di dunia ini, yang kaya jadi lebih kaya dan yang miskin jadi lebih miskin, yang gak untung jadi lebih hancur/parah dan sebaliknya. Begitu juga banyak hal di dunia ini yang kita gak bisa pastikan, kalo hal it mau datang, then terjadi, kalo enggak ya enggak. Seperti masalah gempa di Indo, padahal Indo baru saja di timpa bencana ini desember lalu tepatnya tgl 26 dec.Lalu hari ini (29/3) datang lagi satu bencana. Kapan ini akan berakhir?

Indonesia bukan sebuah negara yang kaya/makmur, jika negara ini asyik di timpa bencana, apa yang akan terjadi kepada negara kita? bagaimana pemerintah bisa atau harus membantu penduduknya? bisa di liat kalo negara yang makmur jarang di timpa bencana, malahan negara yang sering di timpa bencana adalah negara yang miskin. Ini adalah salah satu alasan kenapa gua bilang banyak hal di dunia ini yang gak adil.

26 dec Tsunami sudah makan banyak korban, belum lagi gempa yang ini dan di prediksikan bahwa bakalan ada gempa susulan. Berapa banyak lagi nyawa yang harus di korbankan untuk ini? bencana alam tidak membeda-bedakan antara org yg berdosa atau enggak, sekali makan, semua langsung di telan. Ini merugikan masyarakat dan negara Indonesia. Melihat banyaknya korban yang meninggal dunia, it makes me feel sad but i do not know what should i do as i have no power to prevent/stop this from happening.

Jika di dunia ini ada Tuhan, kenapa Dia enggak bagi sedikit belas kasihan untuk negara ini, bukankah di sebutkan bahwa, Tuhan it belas kasih. Kenapa juga Dia sangat tidak adil? Jika Tuhan benar2 ada, Dia harusnya membagi belas kasihannya. Kadang2, dia orang bilang ini hanyalah percobaan dari Tuhan jadi bersabarlah, tapi jika ini hanyalah percobaan dari Tuhan , kapan percobaan ini akan berakhir? gak cukupkah masalah dan bencana yang di timpakan ke Indonesia? Apakah kita sebagai rakyat Indonesia pernah atau selalu lakukan sesuatu yang bertentangan dgn ajaran Tuhan? kenapa bukan negara lain yang kena? kenapa harus selalu Indonesia? think abt it

see wat u r thinking??!!
Message: *A Girls First Time*
(Assume you are a girl if you are a boy)
It's your first time. As you lie back your
muscles tighten. You put him
off for a while searching for an excuse, but he
refuses to be swayed as he
approaches you. He asks if you're afraid and
you
shake your head bravely.
He has more experience, but it's the first
time his finger has found
the right place. He probes deeply and you
shiver;
your body tenses; but
he's gentle like he promised he'd be. He
looks
deeply within your eyes
and tells you to trust him - he's done this
many
times before. His cool
smile relaxes you and you open wider to give
him
;more room for an easy
entrance.You begin to plead and beg him to
hurry,
but he slowly takes his
time, wanting to cause you as little pain as
possible. As he presses
;closer, going deeper, you feel the tissue give
way; pain surges throughout
your body and you feel the slight trickle of
blood as he continues. He
looks at you concerned and asks you if it's
too
painful.Your eyes are
filled with tears but you shake your head and
nod
for him to go on. He
begins going in and out with skill but you are
now too numb to feel him
within you. After a few moments, you feel
something bursting within you and
he pulls it out of you, you lay panting, glad to
have it over. He looks
at you and smiling warmly, tells you, with a
chuckle; that you have been
his most stubborn yet most rewarding
experience.
You smile and thank your
dentist. After all, it was your first time to have
a tooth pulled.

You Know You're Malaysian When....

You complain about the quality of the pirated DVD you just purchased. "What, RM10 for DVD5?! Aiyah, boss ... sound no good, cheaperlah ..." You're willing to consume sambal petai and durian and gladly suffer the bloating and wind-breaking incidents. You're exceedingly polite to the Mat Sallehs but you slag your own kind. "Hello, sir. Why don't you sit here, it’s got the best view of the city skyline." But, "Aunty-ah, your table is over there next to the kitchen." You order Maggi goreng and fried chicken, complain about how oily the food is, and then proceed to finish it anyway. You love to talk about food. You're already thinking about what to have for dinner while eating lunch. "I'm stuffed. What shall we have for dinner?" You dive into a communal-style meal the moment the dish lands on the table only to hesitate at the last morsel of food on the serving dish. There are two possible explanations for this: the first is the pai seh (embarrassed) factor, while the other is the myth that the person who eats the last piece will be a spinster. You hit the accelerator the moment the first drop of rain hits your windshield. "Alamak, it's going to rain. Sure traffic jam one. I'd better drive faster." You seize the opportunity to make a U-turn anywhere ... especially where there is a sign telling you not to. Well, so long as the cops aren't in sight. You feel a burning desire to send text messages and even have the gall to give your friend a blow-by-blow account of the movie to your friend on the handphone — during the screening of the movie. "Okay, now that girl Lizzie is impersonating an Italian singer; she so doesn’t look Italian ..." You forsake your loved ones for the all-important four letter-word: S-A-L-E. "Sorry, mum, I can't take you to Aunt Mary’s because I have to go to MidValley before the crowd." You’re also more than happy to be part of the insane traffic jam that forms around malls during weekends and sale periods. 11. Reality shows Akademi Fantasia and Malaysian Idol dictate your social life. "What, no TV at the mamak? Count me out — I'm staying home. Rinie needs my support." You pepper every sentence with lah. "No-lah, I can't see you today-lah. I have to study-lah. You know-lah, the prison warden aka mak is watching me like a hawk" You fail to function normally without your daily dose of teh tarik and nasi lemak. You have owned at least one Proton in your lifetime. Cheap, cheap. That is until you start to make enough dough to buy that Honda you've been salivating over. You slow down at an accident site to take down the car number plate, but won't step out of your car to help — the victim could be a robber! You'd rather park your car along the main road outside the mall, where there's a yellow line, rather than pay RM1 to park inside where there are adequate bays. You plead, bat your eyelids and relate a sob story to the officer at the town council office to let you off the hook (or reduce the amount considerably) for the fine you incurred when you parked your car on the double line. You make an appointment for 10am and conveniently show up a half hour late — Malaysian time, what ... You pop open the wet tissue packet at the Chinese restaurant by squeezing the trapped air to the top of the packet before proceeding to smash your fist into it. The louder the pop the better. You greet your friend / neighbor / acquaintance on the street with "How are things?" or "Have you eaten?" or better yet, by stating the obvious: "Went to market ah?" Ramlee burger is the "piece de resistance" of your growing-up-years cuisine. You catch all major televised events at the mamak. You have roughly six meals a day (breakfast, mid-morning tea, lunch, afternoon tea, dinner and supper). Then there's the snacking — keropok ikan, pisang goreng, muruku, jam tarts and the like. You get the whole family dressed to the nines, jump into the car and head for the minister's open house — and ask for styrofoam boxes and plastic bags to tar pau food. Your accent and language style vary according to the race of the person you are conversing with. You've got a friendly disposition. Smiles are abundant and your "Apa khabar?" is warm and sincere. You exclaim loudly how expensive everything is, even though the items may in fact be going for a steal. "Wah! So expensive, ah? Hak sei ngor (Scare me to death)!" You dig deep into your pockets to contribute to the latest appeal for donations in the newspapers. You "dis" our country all the time, but as soon as something good happens (like winning the Thomas Cup), you morph into a proud Malaysian. You never travel abroad without a bottle of chilli sauce, or sachets which you can sneak into restaurants. You're proud to be Malaysian - and you pass these jokes on to all your Malaysian friends!

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You Know You're Indonesian When....

Your stomach growls when you don't eat rice for a day. You believe kecap ABC could turn bad cooking to gourmet food. You talk during a movie. You eat fried rice in the morning. You prefer Versace or Moschino jeans over Gap or Levi's. You don't think Jim Carrey is funny. You think Onky Alexander is a hunk. You think Rhoma Irama is kampungan. You carry a 16 oz. jar of sambal to where ever you travel. Driving a car that is cheaper than $15,000 embarrasses you. You think dangdut is stupid, but listen to it anyways, because you are homesick. You are willing to travel 25 miles to buy tahu and tempe. You are "Dreaming of a WARM Christmas". You are very good at avoiding potholes and other road hazards. Your local McDonald's serves rice and sambal. You think Supermi is a staple food. You have ever tried passing a Rp 50 coin as a quarter in a US vending machine/pay phone. You have ever successfully bribed a police officer. You have ever successfully bribed a customs officer. You do your shopping in Singapore. Your drivers license claims you are 5 years older then you really are. You have ever legally bought pirated software. You have ever been forced to memorize UUD'45. You have bought something from a barefooted street peddler. You know exactly how many islands Indonesia has. You have ever eaten something sold off a cart on wheels. You realized that money is everything before you were six. The first thing that comes to mind when hearing the word "Jakarta" is "macet". Someone you know has ever ridden on top of a train. Your daily commute includes thinking up new ways to ride the city bus for free. You don't mind people being late. You think standing in line is a waste of time. You have tried every Monday of your youth trying to avoid upacara bendera. You have used a mosquito repellant that looks like a coil and is lit on one end. You use the terms "Ni yee", "-lah" and "Ih, jijay" on daily basis You know what Pancasila is, what it means and know it by heart. You complain that movies in America don't have sub-titles. Your daily conversation may include enactments of TV commercials. You have ever consulted a dukun. Your whole class has ever cheated on a test, and gotten away with it. You have ever spent the night before an exam looking for someone who sells the questions. You like the smell of terasi. You think the Thomas Cup is equal to the Super Bowl. You can name a manufacturer of shuttlecocks/badminton birdies. You have a 16' satellite dish hidden in your back yard. You have ever ridden in a motor vehicle with three wheels. You miss your maid during laundry day. Your clothing has brand names printed on it that is visible from 50' away. You attend weddings only until you are done eating. You have attended weddings that you are not invited to. You go to McDonald's to get your weekly supply of ketchup, salt, pepper and napkins. You know more than one music group that stole the tune of Cranberries' "Zombie". You have a can of Baygon on your kitchen table. You make major decisions based on gengsi. You take advantage of Wal-Mart's 30 days money-back-guarantee to "borrow" home appliances. Someone in your family has extra pockets in his outfit to hide cookies from the all-you-can-eat bar. You have paid more then $1000 to get your name on your license plate. When watching TV you regularly find that all the channels broadcast the same thing. You know more than 10 acronyms/abbreviations. You set the ring tone of your cell phone as loud as possible. You spend your weekends at an expensive five star hotel near your house. You have one of those gigantic 5000 watts stereo system even though you can't turn it as loud as you can since you live in a crowded neighborhood. Your Toyota Kijang is packed with bull bar, fog lights, roof rail, car alarm, expensive car audio, gold plated emblems, tail light "protector", racing steering wheels, sports muffler, lowered suspension, 17 inch wheels with expensive tires, etc. Yet you find them not gaul enough. You are able to squeeze 15 passengers in your Toyota Kijang. If you're rich, you buy a huge 50.000 dollars imported SUV and demands it to run minimal 12 kilometers with a liter of gas. You refuse to buy unleaded gas for your imported car even though it costs less than 20 cents a liter. You have your drivers license at the age of 14. You got it without any driving tests. You are unfamiliar with electric stove. You are even more unfamiliar with microwave ovens. If you're a student, your main purpose in life is to succeed in UMPTN and get into a Universitas Negeri. If you've graduated from college, your main purpose in life is to find an easy job with big salary at a foreign company even if you have to stay unemployed for five years to find one. If you finally got a job, your main purpose in life is now to get a wife/husband that's rich, from a "good" family, and the most importantly good looking in order to memperbaiki keturunan. You're proud to be Indonesian - and you pass these jokes on to all your Indonesian friends!

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You Have A Type A- Personality

A- You are one of the most balanced people around Motivated and focused, you are good at getting what you want You rule at success, but success doesn't rule you. When it's playtime, you really know how to kick back Whether it's hanging out with friends or doing something you love! You live life to the fullest - encorporating the best of both worlds

Do You Have a Type A Personality?

ALICEANGKO
A	is for	Animated
L	is for	Lively
I	is for	Insane
C	is for	Captivating
E	is for	Ebullient
A	is for	Artistic
N	is for	Natural
G	is for	Gifted
K	is for	Kind
O	is for	Orderly

What Does Your Name Mean?

You Are A Good Friend

You're always willing to listen Or lend a shoulder to cry on You're there through thick and thin Many people consider you their "best friend"!

What Kind of Friend Are You?

pusssinngggg

Sometimes, it is not easy to say it out what we want to say as the things that we want to say is something which concerns a lot of people. By saying it out, it will ruin everything. However, if we are not saying it out, it is like something strange or a burden in our hearts. For the sake of everybody, it is better if I keep it to myself (utilitarianism theory). However, applying egoism theory, I need to say it out.
Further, being a neutral person sometimes is quite difficult as they may hear any kind of bad things about A people from B people and vice versa. Moreover, some people are putting blamed on the neutral person as you are in none of those sides and sometimes they will look at you as you are a traitor-it is the kind of look which says 'so dont talk too much to her as she is on the other side and she may tell them everything, she knows too much' in which that is not true.
I just do not know how to handle thiS BUT i think it is better if i shut my mouth

the end of the trips

On 15-3-2005, me and my mom and a bunch of aunts and kids were heading to Singapore via JB. Reached in Singapore quite late already as we needed to wait for the van to come. Some people especially first timers may nervous or fear of immigration officers as they tend to look fears but actually they are quite friendly people like a conversation that i get with one of the officer. (At first of course he tried to sound fears) this was the conversation:
officer: sekolah di KDU ke?
me: hah
officer: apa hah? tak boleh hah. pakai iya, boleh atau ya.
Boleh?
me: (tried to joke with him) malaysia boleh
officer: ahahah , indonesia?
me: indonesia bisa
officer: indonesia bisa?
ahahahaah
mana chopped nya, tunggu saya lihat dulu
me: har, gak ada chopped?
officer: oh ada
me:hayo bikin saya kaget aja
officer:kaget?
End
Further they work more efficiently than Singapore one as Singapore' one work slower, sigh.
I just donot understand why some or probably most Indonesians are so proud of Singapore, is it because of the currency? They are proud to have a house or an apartment there, they are proud to shop there and they are proud because they only keep sing dollar. To me, Singapore is only a small country and there is nothing to be proud of unless you are singaporean. What do they offer are only expensive stuffs, high cost of living, bla2bla2 or unless you work there.
Instead proud of Singapore, why dont they all , i mean Indonesians being proud as being Indonesians. I know that Indonesia has nothing to offer for its own people especially the chinese, but how bad your country is, you should be proud of it as we born in that country . If the indonesians themselves do not look high or proud of their own country, then who is going to 'junjung' it?
it is just like , before you respect others, it is better if you respect yourselves first. Never be ashamed in claiming that we are Indonesians (chinese Indonesians).
After three nights stayed in Singapore (tired rather than fun) we were heading back to KL where there were some anger and fun, and all those aunts are still very energetics for shopping

too good

Today, one of my buddies kept telling me not to be so good(chin chai) 'dont be to good , even if you are good to them, someday, somehow, somewhere, they are going to backstab you. What you did may be good but they will not appreciate that. You are the type of person that can easily be cheated or bully'.
i have kept telling myself not to be so good with others, but i cannot change that and you know there is a phrase which says that 'let others use you as long as you dont use others as somehow,somewhere ,someday ,something will happen'. Further, i dont think that i have treated people good and i think even if i treated someone good, that is reasonable. I dont know how to change that, maybe it is the nature, i am born to be like that.
Anybody got suggestion on how to change it?
sigh

horoscope

i have read an article in www.astrology.hotplugins.com, it says that ' virgo's personality is recognised as being organized,industrious and intelligent. Any kind of activities which is not well planned and not systematic irritates them. Virgo is the type of where they analyzed everything before and after the result, therefore they are perfectionist. They appear to be secure but actaully they are a great worrier. Their personality is quiet,dignified and often proud. Dislike any show of emotion in public and people who are demonstartive in that fashion often puts virgoans off. Virgoans tend to be look as old fashioned,conservative and shy.Personality development is just as important as wealth, and when they work, the do it with fervor and stop only after a perfect shape is achieve.

It is idifficult for them to spend time in a useless way, relaxation has different meaning for them than the average.When it comes to relationships thingy-the sense of duty is very high-when you shoulder a responsibility they seldom let others down......."

Can all those horoscope things be believe? in some certain points, it is true but we cannot 100% believe in this things as people have their own style in which how they have been raised or grew up.Not only that sometimes people around us may influence our way of living.

grrrrrrrrrr

some people are some kind one, it is like they want to become someone else which they are not. Like what happened in KLCC today in a shop. I was trying room spray when one of the shop came and said hi, i didnt know that she is one of the staff. These was the conversation:
staff :'hi"
me:'hi"
staff:'are u going to try the room spray"
me: ya
staff: 'If u want to try it, u should use the tester"
me:(i saw the wrong one lar) 'this is the tester'
staff:(with british accent and different tone) no that is not,unless u want to buy it'
stupid , u think i cant afford to buy ar.there was no need for her to change the tone to British accent and grrrrrrrrrrrrrr......to show that because she works under a British shop so she needs to talk like Britishhhhhhhhhhhh.

I realised that nowadays kids are dare to show their opinions than previous generations where we used to not dare to say what we want and we are quite scared of our parents. It has disadvantages and advantages. The advantages side is they can easily adapt with people around them without fear. on the other hand, as a result of this, some of them talk to their parents in quite inpolite way. they pay no respect to the parents.

When i was talking to my friend , i just remembered one of my former classmates back in Penang. She has a problem with her kidney so everytime she needed to 'cuci darah' and everytime she came to class, there was a machine in her stomach. I got no contact with her anymore so dont know what happened to her. All her treatment and medicine cost a lot and sometimes as a classmate, we gt helped her. As a result of all those costs ,her parents who maybe have difficulty financially tried to slowly seldom came and see her ,seldom call and all those things.

What can i say is , i cant blame the parents also as they may gt money problems, second is maybe they have lost hope towards the daughter. This is the case of parents abondened the child.
Another case is children abandoned a mother in an unfinished house and being locked there with all those flies, woods, building materials and what this lady wore was only a piece of cloth and an underwear. I cant imagine what kind or type of children are they. Eventhough how busy are the children , to me at least they should spend sometime with their parents or at least let the parents to live in a proper house and have a proper food.
i am not going to become this type of kids, to me (when i was small, i have made a promise to myself that i am not going to abandon my parents) i will do the best things that i can do for my parents. in fact , i think, my parents are quite proud of me for what i have done in the past two years during chinese new year time. In some way, i have proved it to them,heheheeh

Sometimes, it is very hard to say it out something that you want to say, it is either you have made a promise to somebody or you need to think twice before u said it out as when u said it out, some people may just back stab you.
They may think that you donot know about that,but actually you know, and you just feel that you do not want to say it out to avoid contravention.
Some people may suspicious on you as they think that you have known too much think and they will try to keep secrets from you.

However, instead of asking the person itself, your friends just keep suspicious on you but actually you have done nothing. These type of situation, may make the 'suspected person' feel uncomfortable with her/his surrounding circumstances in which at first the person may have willing to talk to you as he/she is comfortable and believe on the friends ,but once they backstab/talked behind her/him and she/he knows it then dont expect that this person will talk everything.

In order to make the 'suspected person' talk, the friends must at first believe/ trust her, dont just keep some suspicious eyes on her/him and dont always be too easy to have mood swings.
Haya, dont know what to say.
It is like it is easy to say it out but it is not easy to get it done.