Saturday, July 31, 2004

Technology

There is a movie called "I,Robot" which tell us about the era of robots in2035. One of my classmates (Charlie's Angels) has asked me whether is there any possibility in this real worl that someday,somewhere,somehow, there will be these era?
To me, it may happen but not as high tech as what we have watched in the movie as we can see that there is an increasing in technology such as computers which I think , it has done most of our works and save our time.
It used to be no computer but now in our society, technology is everywhere. It has become one of our needs . If these things happen (robotic world), what will happen to our world? unless we have a hero who will come out to fight for it

Saturday, July 24, 2004

eye contact

Some people may have eye to eye conversation and some may not. What's wrong with the latter? It seems to be that they are not focusing on the related topics, or maybe they are lacking of self confidence and/ or maybe they are not comfortable with you.

religion

I had gone to a Japanese restaurant yesterday with another two persons and one of them told me that she joins Bible society. This person used to be a non-religious person . It seems to be that the religion is very good in approaching people to join. Sometimes, they even might attack others religions in order to ask others to join them. If this religions attack others religions just to get more people to join it, so what is the good of this religion? always attacking and criticising others?

Night market

I had gone to night market with one of the Charlie Angle's and my cousin, we were lost on the way back but finally we could find the way. It gives me some inspiration to write that the road that we used to go there ,represents the way that we choose in life. Once we have taken that road , donot ever turn back as it only waste ur time and money. Take the road that you have chosen and dont ever regret of that.
When we came back, there was a lot of alleys and roads that we could use, whether it was long or short, bad or good. If we choose short way, it is true that it saves time but we donot see much if we use a long way. What I mean is if we take a long way, more experience that we can get from there. In order to achieve ur goals, there is alot of ways to use, it depends on you whether u are going to use which way-easier or difficult.

love

Love is like two sides of a coin which let to unhappiness and happiness. I watched a series movie called 'lavender' and it shows that love sometimes let to unhappiness as the guy's love is always taken away.
Is there any love in this world? if there is an existence of love, how can one describe war in Iraq, third countries situations, Israel and Palestina, etc. It can be siad that love exists but it depends on the luck.
Some people believe in love at first sight but some are not. In my opinion, there is no existence of love at first sight. There is love where they know each other quite well and there is communication between them. Communication coupled with understanding and trust. Communication is the most important things in a relationship.
look at a person of his/her quality, the guy that u like may be good looking, rich,bla bla bla but do they have astrong characteristics and reliable?
Look at a person who love u because of our inner beauty not outner beauty. Inner beauty last forever

Saturday, July 17, 2004

think before you talk

Varieties of human beings are inhabited in this world and each of them has their own characterictics which makes them different from others. For example there are honest, bad, kind people, etc. There is also the existence of straight forward person, what I mean is if these person want to criticise the other, they are going to say it directly. They do not think of the consequences or the effect of it to thers. One of the example is me.
Few days ago, I had just criticised a person who is quite good and kind to almost everybody. I did not thin of the impact of the sentences that I said till I had voiced it out. Maybe the best way that i can do now is to put glue in my mouth

Better be honest than lie

Honest? to whom? in certain situations, we should be honest but we cannot be honest all the time. A quote from one of my aunts 'An honest person who is a straight forward person who is easier to be bully'. Therefore in certain situations, we should lie for the sake of everybody but in other situation, we must be honest.
Another thing is it is better to be honest than to tell a lie.Tell the truth eventhough, it will hurt others' feeling, so whioch issues should we follow? for the latter, I think it is easier to say than to do it.
For the former, maybe it is good for business purpose and for the latter, I think it is more suitable for friendship or other relationships.

Friday, July 16, 2004

experience

What I have learnt from these six yeras is the learning process, knowledge is not just from books. Learning is a life long process. Experience is also one of the types of learning. From books what we can get is theoretical knowledge,but from experience what we can get is practical knowledge.
Experience is as important as study even sometimes experience is more important. However without theoretical knowledge there will be no practical learning. Do something, get something no matter how hard it is. try something which is different from others. Everything has beneficial and non beneficial sides.
do as much as u can ,as long as u have enough time and u know how to use the time. time is money

mature and slow down

Some teenagers look more mature than thier real age.It is not just from their appearance but also from the way they act and their attitude or behaviour in handling matters.Some people are built/grow to maturity because of the force by the surrounding circumstances(parents, friends, his/herself). On the other hand, there are some people who are adults but still act like kids.
People are getting rush than they used to be. Sometimes just because they are busy(rush to school,works,fetch kids) they do not know their neighbours and they do not even looking at the situations around them. What I mean is they do look at the environment but do they really look it in detail? In some certain parts, we must slow down, enjoy the life as all of us only have one chance to live in this world.There is no use of rushing and being 'kia su'.
As long as you do your best that's enough.Compete with urself first before u compete with others. The most important things is self confidence.

Monday, July 12, 2004

how to control our emotion or to cope with stress and be patient

1.calm down, take a deep breath,relax for a while.
2.dont think negativelt, think positive, think of the benefits that u can get from the problems.
3.If u really cannot cope with it, consult it with a person that u trust.
4.shout it out(if u think it is necessary)
5.take a walk and look at ur surrounding circumstances
6. think that others have more problems than u but they are able to cope with it
7. think of funny things or stand in front of ur mirror and make a funny face which enable u to laugh or smile.
8. go away from the place.
9.spa
10.meditation
11.exercise or do some activities that u like
12.talk the problems to related person(if u feel u need to do that and it depends on the related person behaviour. some maybe sensitive or u dont know them well, so it is better dont talk)
a research shows that people who are unable to laugh at someth9ing, have a higher chances of getting heart attack

hearing loss

Hearing is one of our important basics in life, without it,one's is unable to listen to everyday's conversation,musics,etc.Further, the loss of hearing may cause one to feel rejected from society as he is unable to hear what others say.
Hearing loss or deafness is uasually caused by:
1.'damage that occurs in the womb such as mother developing rubella, toxoplasmosis or herpes during pregnancy.
2.mechanical problems such as tumour in the ear,accumulation of fluid in the middle ear, obstruction of the ear canal,perforated eardrum or overgrowth og the ossicles bones. Infections,damage to certain parts of the ear or certain diseases can also cause hearing loss'.
Working industries people have a high chances to get deafness as they are working in loud noises place.
As we grow old, the chances of getting deafness is higher.Deafness usually start at the age of 20.Moreover, alcohol,and tobacco may lead to deafness too.
A hearing aid is just help to preserve speech memories and the ability to understand speech.'speech' is based on memories and the longer a person does not hear speech,the. it is to replace the ability to understand .(star article in hering loss, sun 11 jul 04)

Humans

meet and separated
born and die
grow and old
this is human's life
always the same

althought that is the same
humans still cry and sad
when humans are separated

humans never appreciated
what they have
until what they have gone
they are always want to find more.


Alice Angko. (www.poetry.com)

Saturday, July 10, 2004

My Parents

I am quite proud of may parents as they have provided financial and emotional supports for me till now( six years in malaysia) although they did not finish their studies.I am not ashamed of that, instead I am very proud of my father as he came from a very poor background,has come out to work at the age of 13 and now, he is a successful businessman (because of his hardworking) and owns quite a lot of business. He is smart,kind and generous man.Although he never say or show his love by words but at least he shows it by conduct.I am not going to disappoint my parents as they work hard for me to study here and I am doing as hard as I can to make them proud of me ,I am not going to (will never) let them down .
I have a brother but he arrrr,if the way he gets girlfriends is the same as the way he studies, my parents especially my mother do not need to worry about him already, he is so unmature and always thinking of playing around without thinking of the consequences of his action. I am going to think another way to help him.
My cousin is living with me and I am going to try my best to help her, but sometimes, I have no patience. Her parents are quite worried about her as her english not very good and this is the first time she comes and study abroad.Sometimes she is quite quiet but sometimes she wants to know alot of things which i prefer to keep it

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I have seen a person(A)who can be angry just because the other person (B)has said something that not really related to A and someone who is very serious. Is this their nature or what?
Can it be say that a person (C) who is always talks about a person of the opposite sex(D) likes D? Why there is some people who is very 'kiasu'? Why there is some certain people that work quite slow?
Jul 8,I had gone to Stadium Negara to watch pinokio on ice.Actually, on that day i planned to go out with my friends but because something.... we have top cancelled it.About the show again, the show was quite nice although it spoke in Cantonese which most of the time , i could not understand. However, I like to watch the way they play ice skating and maybe because of the lights and the dancing parts.
3 Charlie's Angels and one james bond felt cold. One of the Charlie's ANgels is very good to everybody, till sometimes i feel 'phaise'/segan,hmmm maybe someday i can treat her.
I have studied in malaysia for six years and within these time, I think I was growing more mature. I used to be very egois, 'ko lao', stubborn,nobody liked me.Further, it is because i am fat too.However, i think i have changed all the bad attitudes except that stubborn, and sometimes quite egois, but i know i have done my best.
Why there is some certain people who like to make other people ashamed in front of others? not only one time but a few times already. Do they need to look at themselves first, dont they? I think they should change this attitude, not good
From the movie'For Love or MOney'- donot judge people by their appearance as they may be a great person, we do not know that.

Monday, July 05, 2004

UIM

jul2 and 3, i had gone to UiM to attend client counselling workshop. the founder of the competition said that lawyers are like doctors , they are helping people.dont wait till they come to u.
UIA is a very big university but if i study there i will suffer as there is no entertainment at all.Jul 2, i went to midvalley to watch "around the world in 80 days" and i have learnt a moral from this movie-'if u believe that u can do things that u want to do , that is logic'. At night, i have watched a movie called 'the Association" and i learn that , it is better to be urself no matter what u are and who u are, believe in urself. I know i am lacking of self confidence but at least i try to be myself and i think i must improve my self confidence.
By the way, Euro2004, has finished, greece won, i pity port as they struggled through finals , in the end they lost and somemore in their own country, during the match, there was an intruder ,and he had thrown a hankerchief or whatever to Luis Figo, that is not LUis Figo's fault, he has done his best, stupid intruder. Jul12 "car was" has been cancelled as there is some problems. These few days, consti lecturer was not in agood mood. further all lecturer have given a lot of assignments for us, they think that we are robot, arent they? there is so many assignments till i have no time to study, but i will try to adjust my time again

Thursday, July 01, 2004

courseworks plus UAIM

i just found it out that actually there are alot of criminal cases that i must read and find the judgements.
criminal lecturer just told us that on applying the facts,in tutorial answers and in exam, the facts cannot be too short, we must expand it again.
This week has been a busy week, 2 assignments are waiting for their turn to pass it .I have just finished my contract assignment(20%), therefore i can just breath out abit of my stress, but relax sure i can cope with it, it is only courseworks not a thing which is harmful.
tomorrow and sat i am goin to UIM,to listen to some law things, and we must dress in formal. according to first james bond , on sat we can wear more casual.
i watched football match yesterday, port-holland 2-1, commit suicide goal, port played better than previous.