educated, education?

My last night in Bristol before going for hol , so thinking of writing my blog before I go. One of the observation that I notice ths few days is on taking care of a family either small or large. I am from a small family which consists of parents n 2 children and we are very closed and sometimes as its closed till makes u think that u dont have freedom to do wht u need to do in which make u think that its nice to have a large family and in that case ur parents would not pay all attentions to u. However, I noticed one thing few days ago on a large family, it appears that children from the latter are having too much freedoms till it appears that they r not being taking care properly. I do believe that parents do play important roles in raising and contribute to the behaviour's of their children in present n future.Not only do parents play important roles raising children , but the children themselves do so as no matter how hard parents do teach their children to behave but if the children themselves never ever want to change , there is no point of doing that and wht parents could do might be just advising especially after the children have turned into adults.
I remember while I was at Earl's ct waiting for train, there was a big massive arguments between a boy n his father, they were arguing not like a father n a child but as mates :( . From my observation, there must something happened which triggered how the child reacted /rude to the child's parents. :?

observe, learn and improve self

One of my subjects that I did for A'level was sociology and I remember that sociology's teacher always told us -in order for us to learn, we need to look, read and write - well can I put that 'look, read and write ' as similar to 'observe and learn in which we would be able to improve ourselves? not only in terms of attitudes or behaviour of one self but also on how we treat and respect others. I am not saying that one must change or alter his/her attitude and not be who they are but learning and improving self to be a better person but still keep whats good for us and I think that's one of the purposes of life too- to be a better person and give a contribution to a society where we live in.

Also, it seems that just becos they got a position in life ie much more power compared to some certain people, the former are acting like they are the King to the latter. Why do ths people need to act in tht way? cant they just be normal? Further , there are also some people who keep widging and complain all the times without improving themselve in which I see no points of doing that.