One of my friends has asked me on how do I define a person as 'bad'? A bad person is a person who has done a crime. then she said 'how about a person who has done something immoral but not illegal such as a guy who has slept around with girls? Is he a bad guy or not?
The question that i asked her was whether the girls intended to have it too. If both parties are willing to have it, then the guy is not a bad person unless he has done it without the other party intention.
It is true that it is immoral but not illegal and looking at today's society (especially western culture) a lot of people are having sex before married. As long as they know how to prevent something to happen, that is ok.
On the other hand, before they are going to have it, girls especially must think of the consequence. It's true that it might be fun but all of us cant predict the future.
Her definition of a woman is a person who has already had sex. Oh ,no
A woman is a person who knows how to take care of herself,mature,has a job,and knows how to think as a woman.
I think I should wash her brain next time if I meet her again.
hahaha