would be it worth treating someone nicely even though he/she has treated you like shit? you may not think that one has treated you like that as you think that is normal, but to an outsider it is like shit. You have been nice to that person because you have felt in love with one and perhaps, as a result of that 'love', all you do are to get his attention such as act nicely ( 'hopefully he/she will love me back'!!). Would it be worth to do so when you have no clue on what will it be in the future? he/ she may just still a stranger, a fren, a mate, or....
In order to make that things work, one must have courage to say it out, but there will be a consequence such as u may be rejected or even accepted, well it is depended on respond from another party. If it is rejected, sometimes the feeling of 'shame' may come out especially if these two persons are the type who meet each other every day, there will be awkward feeling, nothing will be the same. However, it will be a 'major happiness' when the answer is 'yes'.
After all ths efforts, i think it is depended on the parties themselves and whether they do have fate to be with each other, it may be ridiculous to believe in fate but without it nothing will work out, no matter how hard you try to be nice and try to get to know one. Sometimes, it is unfair things in this world where one party may in deeply in love with the other party but nothing in return from the other party, it hurts. Why can it be where one party love the other party and the other party love that person back? in such a case, there will be no pain, which i think is good.
Another issue in my mind is , last year during my final year undergraduate course in Bristol, i used to listen to people greeting each other by saying 'hey u alrite' ( probably a short term for hey are u alrite?). However, this year, I am getting use to listen people say 'hey, how is it going' 'wht u been up to '
' wht u been up to' is ok but 'how is it going' how are we going to reply when there is nothing going on?
Sunday, February 25, 2007
Thursday, February 22, 2007
women' sensitivity, politeness and blank promises/lip services
Is it true to say that women are more sensitive compared to men? as sometimes, women are able to sense as to whether they are accepted in a particular situation or not. For example, we are able to sense the acceptance when people are willing to talk and stay longer with us. The feeling of being not accepted arises when they are willing to talk to you but it is because of courtesy. these people , they will talk to you, but they will make lots of excuses to stay away or to go away from that conversation such as 'ok, i gtg, i m very busy, i gt something to do'. Thus, is courtesy useful and good in that situation? I think, it is good that a person has a politeness but please don't make the people feel rejected.
Another issue that comes out from my mind is that why some people tend to promise or say something which they will not do i.e blank promises/ lip services? If that person does not want to do a particular act, then dont say it out. It will just like giving empty hope. I believe some of my friends agree that there are people who do that in a country, in fact most of the people in that country do so , so is it a norm for them to lip services? If there is only one or two persons who do so, it may be acceptable, but if everyone is doing that, I think the world around me or my mind would explode, sigh. Flirty en playful people may do that as well when they wan to court a person or when they are in a very playful state. Sometimes, these blank promises given by those people, will be a very great hope to receivers, but when it is turned out not to be true, the person who receives that hope will be sad or even hurt because of that.
Another issue that comes out from my mind is that why some people tend to promise or say something which they will not do i.e blank promises/ lip services? If that person does not want to do a particular act, then dont say it out. It will just like giving empty hope. I believe some of my friends agree that there are people who do that in a country, in fact most of the people in that country do so , so is it a norm for them to lip services? If there is only one or two persons who do so, it may be acceptable, but if everyone is doing that, I think the world around me or my mind would explode, sigh. Flirty en playful people may do that as well when they wan to court a person or when they are in a very playful state. Sometimes, these blank promises given by those people, will be a very great hope to receivers, but when it is turned out not to be true, the person who receives that hope will be sad or even hurt because of that.
Tuesday, February 20, 2007
happy chinese new year
i guess that it has been a long time since my last post. Anyway, it is just because i have nothing to write or i was just being lazy. Anyway hope all of you have a nice time for chinese new year and may good be with us.
Friday, November 17, 2006
frens 'effort'
I had quite an interesting conversation with my fren the other day, we were talking about friends relationships. It is amazing when we are able to contact old friends whom we have not met for years or at least there is communication even though we live apart as it is hard to do so. However, increases en development in technology such as friendster, msn, skype, etc have helped us to keep in touch with friends, thanks to the development.
However, these technologies wont help much if we as friends do not make efforts to contact each other. One party may make any effort to contact each other but not the other party, result of it would be nill. It happened to me during last summer holidays en in previous holidays, where it seemed to be so hard to ask my frens out (the one in my hometown) even though it was for lunch en it was on weekend, lots of excuses were given such as ' ohhh i have no driver, that place is too far away fr my place, can u come en fetch me ( guys u knw that fr my place to the resto en ur house is totally diff road' bla bla bla. en everytime i asked them out, there will just be lots of excuse, 'next time we go....' Since then , i have stopped to make any of invitation to ask them out. While , some would like to go out with you , just because she is salegirls en she wants to promote her products, if nt she will make lots of excuses as well.
Back to technology thingy, it seems that some people have misled the used of it by using it as 'sex thingy' etc. people who do that probably have no real sex life, they r bored , en nt really dare to face the world or some even do it just for fun, so there are disadvantages n advantages in the technology en we must be careful with those ppl.
However, these technologies wont help much if we as friends do not make efforts to contact each other. One party may make any effort to contact each other but not the other party, result of it would be nill. It happened to me during last summer holidays en in previous holidays, where it seemed to be so hard to ask my frens out (the one in my hometown) even though it was for lunch en it was on weekend, lots of excuses were given such as ' ohhh i have no driver, that place is too far away fr my place, can u come en fetch me ( guys u knw that fr my place to the resto en ur house is totally diff road' bla bla bla. en everytime i asked them out, there will just be lots of excuse, 'next time we go....' Since then , i have stopped to make any of invitation to ask them out. While , some would like to go out with you , just because she is salegirls en she wants to promote her products, if nt she will make lots of excuses as well.
Back to technology thingy, it seems that some people have misled the used of it by using it as 'sex thingy' etc. people who do that probably have no real sex life, they r bored , en nt really dare to face the world or some even do it just for fun, so there are disadvantages n advantages in the technology en we must be careful with those ppl.
Saturday, April 01, 2006
celebrity 'marriage'
Marriage is supposed to be something which is holy and it can only be done once in a life time. Some couples have a long life marriage not only because the love that they still have with each other, but it is also because of the sense of togetherness and it is because of the tradition. However, some couples are totally different from the first one, these couples once they thought that their marriage cannot be ork out anymore and if both of them are strong headed, they will think that the best way to settle the problem is by getting divorce or even once the think that they do not love each other anymore, they will just get a divorce.
Latter type of couples happened happened mostly on celebrity. Once they think that they cant get along with each other, they will get divorce. Some couples are even worse because they want to get a divorce in order for publicity or to promote their movie. These days , the case of divorce among indonesian celebrities are out of limits , everyday we can see from the news that celebrity couples are getting divorce. They do not think of what will happen to the child , all that they want is to get divorce because they cant cope with each other. if lets say today i saw in the news that A couple is going to get a divorce, the next day , i can see again that B couple is also wnat to get divorce.It has became a trend in indonesia that the celebrities are getting divorce without thinking of the consequences. Some even divorce without giving reasons. It seems that they can just go to Pengadilan Agama to get a permission for divorce whenever they want. I am wondering on how many celebrities can the judges in that court meet through out these time.
Is marriage becoming an easy thing to do and the holiness of marriage has gone for a long time? It is true that divorce happened mostly in western country but that indonesian celebrity still live in indonesia which can be said as one of the conventional country in asia, then they are supposed to act in that way ie they should show a good value to their fans. Alot of celebrities, after they have divorced from their spouses, they will date another person. Marriage, nowadays seem to be something that once you want it to be done then you do it but once u do not want it anymore, you will just throw it away. Of course, all these celebrities, will show their pity faces on what are the problems that they are facing nw in order to get attention fr public
Latter type of couples happened happened mostly on celebrity. Once they think that they cant get along with each other, they will get divorce. Some couples are even worse because they want to get a divorce in order for publicity or to promote their movie. These days , the case of divorce among indonesian celebrities are out of limits , everyday we can see from the news that celebrity couples are getting divorce. They do not think of what will happen to the child , all that they want is to get divorce because they cant cope with each other. if lets say today i saw in the news that A couple is going to get a divorce, the next day , i can see again that B couple is also wnat to get divorce.It has became a trend in indonesia that the celebrities are getting divorce without thinking of the consequences. Some even divorce without giving reasons. It seems that they can just go to Pengadilan Agama to get a permission for divorce whenever they want. I am wondering on how many celebrities can the judges in that court meet through out these time.
Is marriage becoming an easy thing to do and the holiness of marriage has gone for a long time? It is true that divorce happened mostly in western country but that indonesian celebrity still live in indonesia which can be said as one of the conventional country in asia, then they are supposed to act in that way ie they should show a good value to their fans. Alot of celebrities, after they have divorced from their spouses, they will date another person. Marriage, nowadays seem to be something that once you want it to be done then you do it but once u do not want it anymore, you will just throw it away. Of course, all these celebrities, will show their pity faces on what are the problems that they are facing nw in order to get attention fr public
Sunday, March 19, 2006
children act, pornography
According to the United Kingdom' law, an accused whose aged is below 18 or 16 , his or her name cannot be exposed to the public and no press should be in the court room. This is to ensure that the child is not exposed to the public and it is used to protect the interest of the child i.e it will not cause any harm for him/her in the future.
Every country has their own interpretation and rules to the system and how they are going to preserve and maintain their country. The law in the UK is totally opposite to Indonesian law. Recently, there is a case whereby a 14 year old boy has been trial in court because he was involved in a fight with another person. There were press during the trial, and the identity of the boy( name, place ) had been exposed. It seem that in Indonesia, it has no particular law or legistation which can be used to protect children. Most of the laws are quite old dated back during the Dutch government time. One of the example is pornography where they just want to implement it recently. It is still during a debate in the parliament. According to the old law, as long as it is morally explicit then it is porno. Every one has their own interpretation of the term 'morally explicit', a conservative person may define it in a narrow term while a liberal person may defini it liberally. There may be an old law to define pornography but practically, it is not like that. We can find a lot of prostitutes on the roads, women who wear sexy clothes almost everyday, and some cheap cinemas playing pornography . If there is a rape case, most of the time , they blame it on pornography, but in fact is that true?
The ban of playboy magazine, one of the example, have they checked the content of it before banning it? or is it just because of the name, therefore there is a ban?
Even if a pornography Act is coming out later, it should not be too strict ( women should not wear sexy clothes etc) as we live in a globalisation country, it is true that Indonesia has the most muslim citizen but do not forget that we still have other religius in that country. The argument for Balinese may be true as by enforcing pornography act too strictly, it will affect their tourism. In my submission, the house of representative must discuss this matter thoroughly , in detail and dont be rush as the act may affect everyone and even economy in indonesia and once it is enforceable, it will just be follow for a long time, and even if we want to change it, it may cause alot of controversy and the same thing, same procerdure may happen again.
Every country has their own interpretation and rules to the system and how they are going to preserve and maintain their country. The law in the UK is totally opposite to Indonesian law. Recently, there is a case whereby a 14 year old boy has been trial in court because he was involved in a fight with another person. There were press during the trial, and the identity of the boy( name, place ) had been exposed. It seem that in Indonesia, it has no particular law or legistation which can be used to protect children. Most of the laws are quite old dated back during the Dutch government time. One of the example is pornography where they just want to implement it recently. It is still during a debate in the parliament. According to the old law, as long as it is morally explicit then it is porno. Every one has their own interpretation of the term 'morally explicit', a conservative person may define it in a narrow term while a liberal person may defini it liberally. There may be an old law to define pornography but practically, it is not like that. We can find a lot of prostitutes on the roads, women who wear sexy clothes almost everyday, and some cheap cinemas playing pornography . If there is a rape case, most of the time , they blame it on pornography, but in fact is that true?
The ban of playboy magazine, one of the example, have they checked the content of it before banning it? or is it just because of the name, therefore there is a ban?
Even if a pornography Act is coming out later, it should not be too strict ( women should not wear sexy clothes etc) as we live in a globalisation country, it is true that Indonesia has the most muslim citizen but do not forget that we still have other religius in that country. The argument for Balinese may be true as by enforcing pornography act too strictly, it will affect their tourism. In my submission, the house of representative must discuss this matter thoroughly , in detail and dont be rush as the act may affect everyone and even economy in indonesia and once it is enforceable, it will just be follow for a long time, and even if we want to change it, it may cause alot of controversy and the same thing, same procerdure may happen again.
Sunday, February 19, 2006
Ada pepatah mengatakan 'bersatu kita teguh, bercerai kita runtuh'. Secara umumnya, pepatah ini menggalakkan kita supaya bersatu sebagai satu bangsa, satu negara dan sesama manusia. Ada persatuan untuk tujuan yang bagus, tetapi ada juga persatuan untuk tujuan yang tidak bagus contohnya bersatu untuk unjuk rasa yang di dalangi dengan bayaran. Apa bagusnya persatuan itu kalau persatuan itu tidak digunakan untuk kebaikan negara. Masih adakah persatuan kalau hal-hal seperti itu didalangi dengan adanya racist, kebencian antara sesama, kecemburuan, penuduhan dll.
Sikap- sikap manusia seperti dengki, cemburu, ada dalam hampir semua manusiawi, itu adalah salah satu sikap yang diberikan untuk mengimbangi sikap- sikap yang lain seperyi kasih, cinta. Jadi kalo persatuan yang didalangi dengan kasih dan cinta untuk kebaikan sesama, adalah persatuan yang lebih bagus daripada persatuan yg lain. Adakalanya, unjuk rasa yang dilakukan hanya untuk mengisi waktu luang yang ada pada diri mereka, dan ada yang melakukannya hanya untuk mendapat nama , tidak bisa dinampikkan kalau ada yang melakukan karena maksud yang baik tapi itu sudah jarang dapat di lihat di mata dunia sekarang ini.
Dengan adanya dunia yang porak porakda ini ie perang, racist , crisis, inflasi, apa yang akan terjadi kepada dunia ini 10 atau 20 tahun kedepan?
Sikap- sikap manusia seperti dengki, cemburu, ada dalam hampir semua manusiawi, itu adalah salah satu sikap yang diberikan untuk mengimbangi sikap- sikap yang lain seperyi kasih, cinta. Jadi kalo persatuan yang didalangi dengan kasih dan cinta untuk kebaikan sesama, adalah persatuan yang lebih bagus daripada persatuan yg lain. Adakalanya, unjuk rasa yang dilakukan hanya untuk mengisi waktu luang yang ada pada diri mereka, dan ada yang melakukannya hanya untuk mendapat nama , tidak bisa dinampikkan kalau ada yang melakukan karena maksud yang baik tapi itu sudah jarang dapat di lihat di mata dunia sekarang ini.
Dengan adanya dunia yang porak porakda ini ie perang, racist , crisis, inflasi, apa yang akan terjadi kepada dunia ini 10 atau 20 tahun kedepan?
Sunday, February 05, 2006
too bored
it has been a long time since my last blog, probably, it has almost been more than 5 months? i am just too bored that is the reason on why i blog. Sometimes, when i have a lot things to do, i feel quite stress out in the sense that i got no free time to think and to enjoy myself, everything must be in rush. However, when i am free, i am just feel that i am to free and feel bored to do anything eventhough i have works to do. I guess there is something wrong about me.
Further, i just do not know what is wrong with me, when it is my time to study, i am not be able to focus, in fact, this is my 3rd year , supposely to focus on my study not on craps stuffs (useless, nonsense) . Moreover, i dont think that i have been productive for these few months in which i supposed to do that. WHAT CAN I DO?
Another thing is if u mixed with people who have motivated to study, you will have that motivation as well, but you wont have that when you have mixed with people who have no such motivation. In life, one must have motivation or purpose on what they want to do in the future, they cannot said that what they do now is because others ask them to do or just because there is no other choice besides this is the way that they should do.
Further, i just do not know what is wrong with me, when it is my time to study, i am not be able to focus, in fact, this is my 3rd year , supposely to focus on my study not on craps stuffs (useless, nonsense) . Moreover, i dont think that i have been productive for these few months in which i supposed to do that. WHAT CAN I DO?
Another thing is if u mixed with people who have motivated to study, you will have that motivation as well, but you wont have that when you have mixed with people who have no such motivation. In life, one must have motivation or purpose on what they want to do in the future, they cannot said that what they do now is because others ask them to do or just because there is no other choice besides this is the way that they should do.
Sunday, October 02, 2005
chicken egg fried rice
A plate of egg chicken friend rice and a cup of coke=5.05 pounds?oh gosh i am quite surprised of the price as in that amount of money, i can have foods for three days or even a week. It is just a simple meal where they put some egg in the rice,small pieces of chicken and beans,it tasted like kdu cafetaria' fried rice where they put alot of ajinomoto into the food. A plate of fried rice in malaysia is only about rm 4 and in rupiah,the most expensive is about rp10000 with all seafoods on it. Comparing the price of a fried rice in either msia or indonesia to UK, it is totally different, if we are converting the money to ringgit,the price of that rice would be rm 35 and in rupiah is about rp100000,where i can have 10 plates of nice fried rice, or even i can go to eat in luxury cafe or restaurant.
It seems that westerner foods are cheaper than chinese or oriental foods.I can get KFC,MCDonald,subway,Miss Millies, each of it less than 4 pounds and that is include drinks.On the other hand for the asian foods, it costs so much.It is rather to cook by myself than having such simple expensive food.It is worth it if the food is nice,like the one that i ate in London (italian foods) which cost about 19 pounds but that is almost a complete course
It seems that westerner foods are cheaper than chinese or oriental foods.I can get KFC,MCDonald,subway,Miss Millies, each of it less than 4 pounds and that is include drinks.On the other hand for the asian foods, it costs so much.It is rather to cook by myself than having such simple expensive food.It is worth it if the food is nice,like the one that i ate in London (italian foods) which cost about 19 pounds but that is almost a complete course
Friday, September 02, 2005
fade up
i am really fade up with my life. i am sick of the situation in indonesia, things that happening around me these fews days, friends,relatives and family that i have here. some people call u just because they want something from u, another thing is once they are cught up in doin something, they just ask u whether u would like to join them or not. Some people even dare to yell at u eventhough they are younger and we did nothing to provoke or do something wrong to them, they think that they are too great, they are able to do all the things by themselves and we are useless. The truth is they are just good in certain things but they are pretending that they are good in everything. "THE GREATEST GOD OF THE WORLD"
Another type of people is the people who are too busy body, they are too kepo in the sense that they are willing to do what others ask them to do but once a problem arises they will be mad at the person who helps them or vice versa. My advice to these type of people is stay out of this and dont be too kepo, it is good to help others but are they going to help you back once u gt problem?
Further, stay out of spoilt childs as if you were in trouble with them or they have a trouble which relates to you, the parents of these childs will come and confront the matter with you. These child will not deal with tyhe matter and they always think that they are right and innocent.
Another type of people is the people who are too busy body, they are too kepo in the sense that they are willing to do what others ask them to do but once a problem arises they will be mad at the person who helps them or vice versa. My advice to these type of people is stay out of this and dont be too kepo, it is good to help others but are they going to help you back once u gt problem?
Further, stay out of spoilt childs as if you were in trouble with them or they have a trouble which relates to you, the parents of these childs will come and confront the matter with you. These child will not deal with tyhe matter and they always think that they are right and innocent.
Friday, July 29, 2005
brave
Brave is on of the key points to succeed and do well in every task that we do. If one is not brave enough to decide what one's want to do, one will never be improved/ one step futher than one used to be. Some people are too scared to do anything, so they will just be in the same position for the rest of their life. As long as we have done nothing wrong, why must we scare? we must be braved in everything that we do as long as the act is correct, right, and not against the law.
I have seen one of this cases where a person was crying because the person had been called by the dean. The person was called not because the dean was going to scold him/her but the dean was just asking him/her about his/her capability.
A person who is not dare to do anything usually he/she will think about all the sides effects before doing anything such as 'what will the public think of me if i do such things?' 'what if i fail?' 'how ashamed am i going to be?' As a result of it, they will just play safe as they do not need to discover or experience any risks and criticism from everyone else.
On one hand, making mistake is also one of the process to success .
I have seen one of this cases where a person was crying because the person had been called by the dean. The person was called not because the dean was going to scold him/her but the dean was just asking him/her about his/her capability.
A person who is not dare to do anything usually he/she will think about all the sides effects before doing anything such as 'what will the public think of me if i do such things?' 'what if i fail?' 'how ashamed am i going to be?' As a result of it, they will just play safe as they do not need to discover or experience any risks and criticism from everyone else.
On one hand, making mistake is also one of the process to success .
Saturday, July 09, 2005
milk
Milk, besides that it can be drink, milk can also be used for other things such as strengthen our hair, protect our skin etc. Milk which contains alot of calsium is good for diet too. Below are a few tips of the use of milk:
1. Strengthen our nails
Milk has a high calsium which can be used to strengthen our nails, it has latic acid. Put ur nails in warm milk for three minutes, wash and put lotion on it.
2. Strebgthen our hair
Put 4-5 teaspoons of milk in water, mix it and put it into our hairf, cover it with towel for less than three mins, then wash it.
3. Skin
Use cotton (put milk on it) on our face and wash it with warm water after a minute. for dry skin, it is better to use full cream milk. For normal skin, whole milk is recommended and oily skin, it is recommended to use non fat milk.
4. Soften our lips
5Soften our body
1. Strengthen our nails
Milk has a high calsium which can be used to strengthen our nails, it has latic acid. Put ur nails in warm milk for three minutes, wash and put lotion on it.
2. Strebgthen our hair
Put 4-5 teaspoons of milk in water, mix it and put it into our hairf, cover it with towel for less than three mins, then wash it.
3. Skin
Use cotton (put milk on it) on our face and wash it with warm water after a minute. for dry skin, it is better to use full cream milk. For normal skin, whole milk is recommended and oily skin, it is recommended to use non fat milk.
4. Soften our lips
5Soften our body
bored
It has been a month since i came back from Malaysia and ithin these times, i only could produce two articles which i think that is not productive at all. It is not like i have so many things to do but i am just cannot write even a thing. My brain stuck and it always happened when i am in indonesia. Besides that, I always have bad temper when i am here. Bored......
the place that i lived in actually is a nice place to live, it has alot of facility such as tennis and basketball courts, billiard, swimming pool, badminton court, shooting area,park, go-kart,etc. However, i still feel that i am in a place which is far away from everywhere as it is quite far from city centre. If there is no car, then dont expect that you can go anywhere. Further, the wheather is very humid and not clean since the eartquakes. There is nowhere to go, the nearest shopping mall is 15 minutes away by car.
So far, i just went to two picnic places which are pantai permai and brastagi/ tanah karo. Permai becah is a new beach, it is next to pantai cermin where tsunami occurred. It has boat and karaoke facilities. There is nothing much to say about this place. Oh ya, there is a theme park nearby the beach.
Brastagi/ tanah karo is a highland where we can find fresh and cheap fruits and vegetables. According to some of my friends, there is a beautiful waterfall but in order to reach there, we need to climd a high staircase. Further away from Brastagi, there are kota kabanjahe and gundaling. Kabanjahe is famous of its passion fruits while gundaling is located at the top of the highland.
The place is called tanah karo mainly because karo people live there. They are different from javanese in alot of ways. Karo girls/women are mostly beautiful, further the people are very hardworking. They have different religion with the javanese. The Karo are Christian. One thing that can make us recognise them as batak/ karo is the way they speak which is quite rough. The place is also famous of the corn which has a lot of taste such as steam corn, bbq corn and chili sause corn. For those who likes to ride horses and sado, this is the place to go
the place that i lived in actually is a nice place to live, it has alot of facility such as tennis and basketball courts, billiard, swimming pool, badminton court, shooting area,park, go-kart,etc. However, i still feel that i am in a place which is far away from everywhere as it is quite far from city centre. If there is no car, then dont expect that you can go anywhere. Further, the wheather is very humid and not clean since the eartquakes. There is nowhere to go, the nearest shopping mall is 15 minutes away by car.
So far, i just went to two picnic places which are pantai permai and brastagi/ tanah karo. Permai becah is a new beach, it is next to pantai cermin where tsunami occurred. It has boat and karaoke facilities. There is nothing much to say about this place. Oh ya, there is a theme park nearby the beach.
Brastagi/ tanah karo is a highland where we can find fresh and cheap fruits and vegetables. According to some of my friends, there is a beautiful waterfall but in order to reach there, we need to climd a high staircase. Further away from Brastagi, there are kota kabanjahe and gundaling. Kabanjahe is famous of its passion fruits while gundaling is located at the top of the highland.
The place is called tanah karo mainly because karo people live there. They are different from javanese in alot of ways. Karo girls/women are mostly beautiful, further the people are very hardworking. They have different religion with the javanese. The Karo are Christian. One thing that can make us recognise them as batak/ karo is the way they speak which is quite rough. The place is also famous of the corn which has a lot of taste such as steam corn, bbq corn and chili sause corn. For those who likes to ride horses and sado, this is the place to go
Tuesday, June 28, 2005
appearance,money,sex and crimes
Appearance does not change one's position in society. No matter how one change his/her appearance to be abetter one, it does not do anything. For example A comes from a middle class family but he acts like or does or pretend to be someone from upper class in order tio show off to the world that he is rich. However ,in some point, in one of his side of appearance or from languages that he uses, it will show the class of people that he comes from.
Further, what is the used of showing off especially in today's society where there are a lot of crimes such as burglary, robbery, theft. These crimes occur when unemployment exists, inflation and growing number of chidren.
Moreover, today's society is becoming immoral society where we can see in reported cases everyday that some fathers raped their own daughters and excuses given were they were 'khilaf' and 'they woulkd not do that again. Some has been raped their own daughter for years and in my opinion, if they wer 'khilaf' they should stop doing it before they were taken to jail not after it.
A son nmurdered his own mother because his mother did not want to give him pocket money.
Increasing number of drugs may also be one of the important factors of crimes. Foods and shelter used tro be essential neccessity to human being but nowadays money, drugs, sex also seem to be important. Without money, we cant buy anything, drugs are importnat to addicters and sex is to fulfill our desire.
Further, what is the used of showing off especially in today's society where there are a lot of crimes such as burglary, robbery, theft. These crimes occur when unemployment exists, inflation and growing number of chidren.
Moreover, today's society is becoming immoral society where we can see in reported cases everyday that some fathers raped their own daughters and excuses given were they were 'khilaf' and 'they woulkd not do that again. Some has been raped their own daughter for years and in my opinion, if they wer 'khilaf' they should stop doing it before they were taken to jail not after it.
A son nmurdered his own mother because his mother did not want to give him pocket money.
Increasing number of drugs may also be one of the important factors of crimes. Foods and shelter used tro be essential neccessity to human being but nowadays money, drugs, sex also seem to be important. Without money, we cant buy anything, drugs are importnat to addicters and sex is to fulfill our desire.
Wednesday, June 22, 2005
.....
Crisis of petrol occurs here and as a result of it, the demand of it is arises and in which it increases the price of petrol. According to 'pertamina', petrol/ BBM is going to finish in 17.5 days while on the onther hand, the minister of BUMN has denied it.
The price of petrol which was $59.37/barrel would give a negative impact to importer countries like Indonesia. Further, it seems that rupiah is going to be weaker than US dollars. This is because of profit buying of dollars from corporates and central bank of europe planes to reduce its interests.
How can rupiah become stronger if the people themselves prefer to use dollars for their business transaction than rupiah? For example, buying and selling of tickets flights using US dollars here.They can use rupiah instead of dollars.The reason for using dollars is because it is more profitable . There are no co-operation among the people as what they think are for their own benefits.
The price of petrol which was $59.37/barrel would give a negative impact to importer countries like Indonesia. Further, it seems that rupiah is going to be weaker than US dollars. This is because of profit buying of dollars from corporates and central bank of europe planes to reduce its interests.
How can rupiah become stronger if the people themselves prefer to use dollars for their business transaction than rupiah? For example, buying and selling of tickets flights using US dollars here.They can use rupiah instead of dollars.The reason for using dollars is because it is more profitable . There are no co-operation among the people as what they think are for their own benefits.
Saturday, April 09, 2005
words
A word/words can be mean as a word alone or it has alot of definitions, as a result of it some human beings have abused the used of these words. These type of people are expert in twisting words/sentences,phrases that they have just said. On the other hand, there are a vice versa type of people who are not good in using words, so they are in a weak position as words or languages that we used play important parts in our life.
Former type of people know how to use their sentences properly so when they speak it out, the sentences used by them may not have innuendo behind it or others will easily believe on what these human beings say.
However, for the latter type, as they are not good in using languages or words, sometimes the other person who has a conversation with these kind of person, may think of the other way round as to what is the truly intention. Therefore, it can be said that in any business field, working environment or any other places, people who know how to use their language well, may find it not difficult to adapt with the situations or the people around them but it will be difficult for those who are not. the used of sentences play an important role in our life
Former type of people know how to use their sentences properly so when they speak it out, the sentences used by them may not have innuendo behind it or others will easily believe on what these human beings say.
However, for the latter type, as they are not good in using languages or words, sometimes the other person who has a conversation with these kind of person, may think of the other way round as to what is the truly intention. Therefore, it can be said that in any business field, working environment or any other places, people who know how to use their language well, may find it not difficult to adapt with the situations or the people around them but it will be difficult for those who are not. the used of sentences play an important role in our life
Friday, April 01, 2005
The effect of Stubbornness
A person can be considered as stubborn when he/she is determined to do what he/she wants to do and refused to do anything else or to do other things which he/she thinks that he/she may not need to do it. To me, almost everybody in this world are stubborn, it is only depended on the level or to what extent is him/her stubbornness. Some people are so stubborn till they do not believe in what other people say until he/she proves it by him/herself or untill there are evidences to prove that the things should be like that.
On the other hand, there are some people who are not that stubborn. I am not saying that stubborn is bad nor it is good. It is depended on the situation and the level of the stubbornness.
Some types of stubbornness may bring good but some are not. If a person is too stubborn, it only bring/ do nothing good or even worse. The reason why I said like that because that was what happened to me as a result of my stubbornness.
It happened on last Tuesday. Previously, my friend (i think you know who you are) had told me that the format for company law's presentation first question was like that, errrr lets say A style, but I did not believe him, I kept arguing with him as my interpretation to the question and his interpretation to the question was totally different. I did not follow his style, I kept doing it on my own style, lets called it B style.
Not till last Tuesday, when i re read my question again and after I heard from another friend that the format supposed to be A style, at that time i was just panicked and at that time i just believe him that the answer supposed to be A style. At that time i just regreted on how stubborn i was. The effect of it was FORTUNATELY, i needed to stay up late and re did all my answer (luckily i chose question one) and continuely did that till the next day. However, finally i managed to get it done and i have promised myself that next time never ever be so stubborn and do last minute work, unless if there is no choice.
an experience
On the other hand, there are some people who are not that stubborn. I am not saying that stubborn is bad nor it is good. It is depended on the situation and the level of the stubbornness.
Some types of stubbornness may bring good but some are not. If a person is too stubborn, it only bring/ do nothing good or even worse. The reason why I said like that because that was what happened to me as a result of my stubbornness.
It happened on last Tuesday. Previously, my friend (i think you know who you are) had told me that the format for company law's presentation first question was like that, errrr lets say A style, but I did not believe him, I kept arguing with him as my interpretation to the question and his interpretation to the question was totally different. I did not follow his style, I kept doing it on my own style, lets called it B style.
Not till last Tuesday, when i re read my question again and after I heard from another friend that the format supposed to be A style, at that time i was just panicked and at that time i just believe him that the answer supposed to be A style. At that time i just regreted on how stubborn i was. The effect of it was FORTUNATELY, i needed to stay up late and re did all my answer (luckily i chose question one) and continuely did that till the next day. However, finally i managed to get it done and i have promised myself that next time never ever be so stubborn and do last minute work, unless if there is no choice.
an experience
Tuesday, March 29, 2005
gak adil
banyak hal yang gak adil di dunia ini, yang kaya jadi lebih kaya dan yang miskin jadi lebih miskin, yang gak untung jadi lebih hancur/parah dan sebaliknya. Begitu juga banyak hal di dunia ini yang kita gak bisa pastikan, kalo hal it mau datang, then terjadi, kalo enggak ya enggak. Seperti masalah gempa di Indo, padahal Indo baru saja di timpa bencana ini desember lalu tepatnya tgl 26 dec.Lalu hari ini (29/3) datang lagi satu bencana. Kapan ini akan berakhir?
Indonesia bukan sebuah negara yang kaya/makmur, jika negara ini asyik di timpa bencana, apa yang akan terjadi kepada negara kita? bagaimana pemerintah bisa atau harus membantu penduduknya? bisa di liat kalo negara yang makmur jarang di timpa bencana, malahan negara yang sering di timpa bencana adalah negara yang miskin. Ini adalah salah satu alasan kenapa gua bilang banyak hal di dunia ini yang gak adil.
26 dec Tsunami sudah makan banyak korban, belum lagi gempa yang ini dan di prediksikan bahwa bakalan ada gempa susulan. Berapa banyak lagi nyawa yang harus di korbankan untuk ini? bencana alam tidak membeda-bedakan antara org yg berdosa atau enggak, sekali makan, semua langsung di telan. Ini merugikan masyarakat dan negara Indonesia. Melihat banyaknya korban yang meninggal dunia, it makes me feel sad but i do not know what should i do as i have no power to prevent/stop this from happening.
Jika di dunia ini ada Tuhan, kenapa Dia enggak bagi sedikit belas kasihan untuk negara ini, bukankah di sebutkan bahwa, Tuhan it belas kasih. Kenapa juga Dia sangat tidak adil? Jika Tuhan benar2 ada, Dia harusnya membagi belas kasihannya. Kadang2, dia orang bilang ini hanyalah percobaan dari Tuhan jadi bersabarlah, tapi jika ini hanyalah percobaan dari Tuhan , kapan percobaan ini akan berakhir? gak cukupkah masalah dan bencana yang di timpakan ke Indonesia? Apakah kita sebagai rakyat Indonesia pernah atau selalu lakukan sesuatu yang bertentangan dgn ajaran Tuhan? kenapa bukan negara lain yang kena? kenapa harus selalu Indonesia? think abt it
Indonesia bukan sebuah negara yang kaya/makmur, jika negara ini asyik di timpa bencana, apa yang akan terjadi kepada negara kita? bagaimana pemerintah bisa atau harus membantu penduduknya? bisa di liat kalo negara yang makmur jarang di timpa bencana, malahan negara yang sering di timpa bencana adalah negara yang miskin. Ini adalah salah satu alasan kenapa gua bilang banyak hal di dunia ini yang gak adil.
26 dec Tsunami sudah makan banyak korban, belum lagi gempa yang ini dan di prediksikan bahwa bakalan ada gempa susulan. Berapa banyak lagi nyawa yang harus di korbankan untuk ini? bencana alam tidak membeda-bedakan antara org yg berdosa atau enggak, sekali makan, semua langsung di telan. Ini merugikan masyarakat dan negara Indonesia. Melihat banyaknya korban yang meninggal dunia, it makes me feel sad but i do not know what should i do as i have no power to prevent/stop this from happening.
Jika di dunia ini ada Tuhan, kenapa Dia enggak bagi sedikit belas kasihan untuk negara ini, bukankah di sebutkan bahwa, Tuhan it belas kasih. Kenapa juga Dia sangat tidak adil? Jika Tuhan benar2 ada, Dia harusnya membagi belas kasihannya. Kadang2, dia orang bilang ini hanyalah percobaan dari Tuhan jadi bersabarlah, tapi jika ini hanyalah percobaan dari Tuhan , kapan percobaan ini akan berakhir? gak cukupkah masalah dan bencana yang di timpakan ke Indonesia? Apakah kita sebagai rakyat Indonesia pernah atau selalu lakukan sesuatu yang bertentangan dgn ajaran Tuhan? kenapa bukan negara lain yang kena? kenapa harus selalu Indonesia? think abt it
Sunday, March 27, 2005
see wat u r thinking??!!
Message: *A Girls First Time*
(Assume you are a girl if you are a boy)
It's your first time. As you lie back your
muscles tighten. You put him
off for a while searching for an excuse, but he
refuses to be swayed as he
approaches you. He asks if you're afraid and
you
shake your head bravely.
He has more experience, but it's the first
time his finger has found
the right place. He probes deeply and you
shiver;
your body tenses; but
he's gentle like he promised he'd be. He
looks
deeply within your eyes
and tells you to trust him - he's done this
many
times before. His cool
smile relaxes you and you open wider to give
him
;more room for an easy
entrance.You begin to plead and beg him to
hurry,
but he slowly takes his
time, wanting to cause you as little pain as
possible. As he presses
;closer, going deeper, you feel the tissue give
way; pain surges throughout
your body and you feel the slight trickle of
blood as he continues. He
looks at you concerned and asks you if it's
too
painful.Your eyes are
filled with tears but you shake your head and
nod
for him to go on. He
begins going in and out with skill but you are
now too numb to feel him
within you. After a few moments, you feel
something bursting within you and
he pulls it out of you, you lay panting, glad to
have it over. He looks
at you and smiling warmly, tells you, with a
chuckle; that you have been
his most stubborn yet most rewarding
experience.
You smile and thank your
dentist. After all, it was your first time to have
a tooth pulled.
Message: *A Girls First Time*
(Assume you are a girl if you are a boy)
It's your first time. As you lie back your
muscles tighten. You put him
off for a while searching for an excuse, but he
refuses to be swayed as he
approaches you. He asks if you're afraid and
you
shake your head bravely.
He has more experience, but it's the first
time his finger has found
the right place. He probes deeply and you
shiver;
your body tenses; but
he's gentle like he promised he'd be. He
looks
deeply within your eyes
and tells you to trust him - he's done this
many
times before. His cool
smile relaxes you and you open wider to give
him
;more room for an easy
entrance.You begin to plead and beg him to
hurry,
but he slowly takes his
time, wanting to cause you as little pain as
possible. As he presses
;closer, going deeper, you feel the tissue give
way; pain surges throughout
your body and you feel the slight trickle of
blood as he continues. He
looks at you concerned and asks you if it's
too
painful.Your eyes are
filled with tears but you shake your head and
nod
for him to go on. He
begins going in and out with skill but you are
now too numb to feel him
within you. After a few moments, you feel
something bursting within you and
he pulls it out of you, you lay panting, glad to
have it over. He looks
at you and smiling warmly, tells you, with a
chuckle; that you have been
his most stubborn yet most rewarding
experience.
You smile and thank your
dentist. After all, it was your first time to have
a tooth pulled.
You Know You're Malaysian When.... |
You complain about the quality of the pirated DVD you just purchased. "What, RM10 for DVD5?! Aiyah, boss ... sound no good, cheaperlah ..." You're willing to consume sambal petai and durian and gladly suffer the bloating and wind-breaking incidents. You're exceedingly polite to the Mat Sallehs but you slag your own kind. "Hello, sir. Why don't you sit here, it’s got the best view of the city skyline." But, "Aunty-ah, your table is over there next to the kitchen." You order Maggi goreng and fried chicken, complain about how oily the food is, and then proceed to finish it anyway. You love to talk about food. You're already thinking about what to have for dinner while eating lunch. "I'm stuffed. What shall we have for dinner?" You dive into a communal-style meal the moment the dish lands on the table only to hesitate at the last morsel of food on the serving dish. There are two possible explanations for this: the first is the pai seh (embarrassed) factor, while the other is the myth that the person who eats the last piece will be a spinster. You hit the accelerator the moment the first drop of rain hits your windshield. "Alamak, it's going to rain. Sure traffic jam one. I'd better drive faster." You seize the opportunity to make a U-turn anywhere ... especially where there is a sign telling you not to. Well, so long as the cops aren't in sight. You feel a burning desire to send text messages and even have the gall to give your friend a blow-by-blow account of the movie to your friend on the handphone — during the screening of the movie. "Okay, now that girl Lizzie is impersonating an Italian singer; she so doesn’t look Italian ..." You forsake your loved ones for the all-important four letter-word: S-A-L-E. "Sorry, mum, I can't take you to Aunt Mary’s because I have to go to MidValley before the crowd." You’re also more than happy to be part of the insane traffic jam that forms around malls during weekends and sale periods. 11. Reality shows Akademi Fantasia and Malaysian Idol dictate your social life. "What, no TV at the mamak? Count me out — I'm staying home. Rinie needs my support." You pepper every sentence with lah. "No-lah, I can't see you today-lah. I have to study-lah. You know-lah, the prison warden aka mak is watching me like a hawk" You fail to function normally without your daily dose of teh tarik and nasi lemak. You have owned at least one Proton in your lifetime. Cheap, cheap. That is until you start to make enough dough to buy that Honda you've been salivating over. You slow down at an accident site to take down the car number plate, but won't step out of your car to help — the victim could be a robber! You'd rather park your car along the main road outside the mall, where there's a yellow line, rather than pay RM1 to park inside where there are adequate bays. You plead, bat your eyelids and relate a sob story to the officer at the town council office to let you off the hook (or reduce the amount considerably) for the fine you incurred when you parked your car on the double line. You make an appointment for 10am and conveniently show up a half hour late — Malaysian time, what ... You pop open the wet tissue packet at the Chinese restaurant by squeezing the trapped air to the top of the packet before proceeding to smash your fist into it. The louder the pop the better. You greet your friend / neighbor / acquaintance on the street with "How are things?" or "Have you eaten?" or better yet, by stating the obvious: "Went to market ah?" Ramlee burger is the "piece de resistance" of your growing-up-years cuisine. You catch all major televised events at the mamak. You have roughly six meals a day (breakfast, mid-morning tea, lunch, afternoon tea, dinner and supper). Then there's the snacking — keropok ikan, pisang goreng, muruku, jam tarts and the like. You get the whole family dressed to the nines, jump into the car and head for the minister's open house — and ask for styrofoam boxes and plastic bags to tar pau food. Your accent and language style vary according to the race of the person you are conversing with. You've got a friendly disposition. Smiles are abundant and your "Apa khabar?" is warm and sincere. You exclaim loudly how expensive everything is, even though the items may in fact be going for a steal. "Wah! So expensive, ah? Hak sei ngor (Scare me to death)!" You dig deep into your pockets to contribute to the latest appeal for donations in the newspapers. You "dis" our country all the time, but as soon as something good happens (like winning the Thomas Cup), you morph into a proud Malaysian. You never travel abroad without a bottle of chilli sauce, or sachets which you can sneak into restaurants. You're proud to be Malaysian - and you pass these jokes on to all your Malaysian friends! |
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