Thursday, February 22, 2007

women' sensitivity, politeness and blank promises/lip services

Is it true to say that women are more sensitive compared to men? as sometimes, women are able to sense as to whether they are accepted in a particular situation or not. For example, we are able to sense the acceptance when people are willing to talk and stay longer with us. The feeling of being not accepted arises when they are willing to talk to you but it is because of courtesy. these people , they will talk to you, but they will make lots of excuses to stay away or to go away from that conversation such as 'ok, i gtg, i m very busy, i gt something to do'. Thus, is courtesy useful and good in that situation? I think, it is good that a person has a politeness but please don't make the people feel rejected.

Another issue that comes out from my mind is that why some people tend to promise or say something which they will not do i.e blank promises/ lip services? If that person does not want to do a particular act, then dont say it out. It will just like giving empty hope. I believe some of my friends agree that there are people who do that in a country, in fact most of the people in that country do so , so is it a norm for them to lip services? If there is only one or two persons who do so, it may be acceptable, but if everyone is doing that, I think the world around me or my mind would explode, sigh. Flirty en playful people may do that as well when they wan to court a person or when they are in a very playful state. Sometimes, these blank promises given by those people, will be a very great hope to receivers, but when it is turned out not to be true, the person who receives that hope will be sad or even hurt because of that.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Sex and the City, isn't it?

alice angko said...

i dont get you, wht do u mean by sex and the city?
and btw who is ths?