Today, one of my buddies kept telling me not to be so good(chin chai) 'dont be to good , even if you are good to them, someday, somehow, somewhere, they are going to backstab you. What you did may be good but they will not appreciate that. You are the type of person that can easily be cheated or bully'.
i have kept telling myself not to be so good with others, but i cannot change that and you know there is a phrase which says that 'let others use you as long as you dont use others as somehow,somewhere ,someday ,something will happen'. Further, i dont think that i have treated people good and i think even if i treated someone good, that is reasonable. I dont know how to change that, maybe it is the nature, i am born to be like that.
Anybody got suggestion on how to change it?
sigh
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