baby

I have just finished watching a TV show called 'help me love my baby' in Channel 4 about a mom and her beautiful n cute baby daughter who do not have bound towards each other. After the baby was born prematurely, the mother thought that she have a monster as the mother thinks herself as a monster herself. What did the baby do was avoiding eye contact/ not even look at her mother. This things happen because when the mother was a child , she had no close relationship/ not a good relationship with her own mother. Her own mother was an alcoholic who used to beaten the 'mother' up n stuffs.
It is so unbelievable that such a tiny baby can be so responsive and I think it is even much more responsive compare to an adult. These babies may not be able to talk and they may cry all the times and in fact crying is one of the ways for them to communicate to their parents. They learn things through their senses thus probably they can be very sensitive sometimes. They are able to sense on whether they are being care or being ignored and as a result of it, they response back to the behaviour and how they are being treated from adults. Babies may be difficult to be taken care off as they have lots of special needs and attention compare to adults and also because they are fragile and vulnerable. However, having them in our lives, might be greatest things that we can have so far, thus I could understand on why some certain parents are very protective towards their children even thought according to law, the children are considered as adults. Some of these children may turn into mummy's boys or girls but no one to blame on it as the parents are just too worried about their children. What can the children do is to act maturely n independently and prove to the parents that they can take care of themselves but it may be difficult to do so as parents always have thinking that their children are still children. :)