freund and promise

What is 'freund'? according to the general meaning 'freund' means a person whom you know and whom you like but who is not a member of a family. If this is a mening of friend, can a person still be called as a friend when the person just need you or treat you as a friend whenever they need you and it is depended on their mood.

When their moods is not well or when you have done something wrong with or without you realising it, they will just pretend that you have never existed at all. If this type of person is also called as a friend, that is bullsh***t. Sometimes, if you have this kind of friends, it can make you feel sad, useless as it makes you to think of what's wrong with this person. Being treated like that by a friend that you just know may not be as hurt as being treated like that by your close friend.

This type of persons would only like to be your friend when they think they want to be ur friend or something has forced them to do like that such as promise made by them, etc. To some people, promise may just means promise where it does not really need to be done, it is in the sense that, a promise is just words/sentences/phrases that come out from one's mouth without the need to be enforceable.

However, to some people, promise is something that should be done. What you have promised to the other person must be done by you in order for that person to trust you eventhough how small or unimportant that promise, so my advice is make sure that you can do what you have promised/ told others to do before you made a promise to that person. Dont just be a 'big mouth'.

A promise may not be important to aperson who made it but it may be important to the person whom promise have been made to him/her.